Oh wow! She's really lost the plot today. Does she not realise that a lot of the comments about the changing mat/unit weren't digs or people being horrible. They were often from Mums talking from experience. I think most new Mums have these wonderful intentions of using all the gadgets, having a pristine nursery, using a proper changing and/or bath station, never having shit stained vests and baby-grows etc. It's only once having the baby and you go with the flow that you learn and realise certain things. For example, I totally got all the comments saying that changing a nappy sideways on, isn't always the most practical, especially in a small alcove. I always ended up on the floor, using a changing mat, with my daughter facing me.
Her saying she is not entering the insta mum world...what the fuck did she think was going to happen when so far she has showed every single little aspect of her life. She takes absolutely everything to heart and as a dig rather than the advise it is meant to be. OR has she always planned to keep baby secret and this is now her excuse as to why she won't show him etc.
Having a baby, is the one time in life you can guarantee you will get advise, whether you ask for it or not. Most is well meant but you will get it by the shit load - conflicting advice, scaremongering, supportive, you will have people telling you, you are doing it wrong because 40 years ago people did it this way etc, you will have the feeding debates etc. etc. She chose to share every moment of her pregnancy and to make money out of it, so she cant now get upset when people are talking about it. She's definitely one of those people that can never be wrong!