These threads are moving too fast. Now, don’t hate me..
I do sympathise with her struggling as a new mum, even though she has worded it to sound like a cry baby, oh poor me etc.. it’s hard, it’s even harder when you know people are waiting for you to fail (17 Years old with a new born- I felt like people were just watching and waiting for me to fail) so yeah, I get that with her the world was watching sort of thing, I get the struggles with MH, as again, been there, struggling through it right now. BUT, what I don’t get is waiting to put this all in a book and interview, to line her pocket, why not just come on her story after Ron was born and simply say “
duck this is really hard” or just be more honest about her MH, like “ok guys today I haven’t cleaned my home because quite frankly I’d rather stay in my pjs, scoff a pack of biscuits and sleep when my child sleeps”, without the gushing posts on her stories “we’ve got this, we’re together in this, i love you all hinchers. ATB” posted at 2am for sympathy....
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Also hate that she used “we were trying and I thought it wouldn’t happen” but, married August- Trying until October? 10 months. People try for years and years. What she meant was, it’s Soph’s Fairytale land, they should’ve conceived on the first try. MR and I are trying, have been almost 2years. Yes it’s disheartening but it is what is is.
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I’d have respected her more if she had just said, I went looking for this, I didn’t anticipate how much hard work it would be, hinchers are bat
tit crazy and tbh, I am thankful for the lavish lifestyle it has enabled me to have... but, I want to slow down a little now. Thanks. ATB
I suppose honesty doesn’t come quite as easy to Soph though.