Clearly Jade follows and comments on this thread so I want to say this to her in the kindest possible way: if you are not in a good head space, step back from social media. You will never find peace on Instagram. Connect with you kids without using your phone. Don’t rely on the reactions of others to drive your self worth. Kindness certainly counts, but when you put yourself on a public platform, you have to be prepared for all sorts of feedback, the good, the bad and the ugly.