I'm so sorry, you don't deserve to be treated like this. Do you have anywhere else to go and stay for a bit?I feel like this would be a perfect time to mention that she had a 3 BEDROOM HOUSE and we have a 2 BEDROOM FLAT 10 mins apart but when I mention that if she really needs ‘us’ to help care for her maybe we should all go there but I’m met with the response that it’s her house and she doesn’t want us all there invading. I’m fighting a losing battleMy best bet is to completely lose my shit and say she needs to go but of course that makes me look terrible.
Or Jimmy Savile, who called his mother the Duchess and kept her clothes in a closet, years after her death.I'm getting Norman Bates type vibes here.....
I can't. You have to be trolling us now. Kick them both out. He's probably there having bitty too by the sounds of itThey’re in bed now. Would it freak you all out if I said he sleeps in his boxers next to her too ..cos it’s true
god I really feel for you! Id be livid if I got kicked out my own bedSo the original plan was, she would stay here for ONE WEEK and then if he felt she still couldn’t be alone he would go to her house with her and pop back to us when he could which suited me fine. We only have the one child and he was just going back to school after the closures so this plan was perfect. It just NEVER happened and when I asked or even mentioned it to his family I was met with the response that it’s best she’s at mine because I have no stairs and an en suite for her to use ...
They’re in bed now. Would it freak you all out if I said he sleeps in his boxers next to her too ..cos it’s true
In the morning I am going to tell him this can not go on and he needs to find a way for her to go home. Either alone, or he can go with her too.
I will need a new mattress when she’s gone. I can’t go back to sleeping on it can I
I feel like this thread has suddenly turnedOr Jimmy Savile, who called his mother the Duchess and kept her clothes in a closet, years after her death.
That is hilarious. They sound funnyI know a couple who insist on being called G-ma & G-pa cause they think they are still young and hip, they are not.
I too am checking in for an update 🫖Peaches - hope you're okay and are sorting things out. Love to you pet xx
You really shouldn't be put up with this.Hi Guys!!
Have had a few days off to deal with the shit. Soooo we got into a huge huge argument about it all... I said that I’d absolutely had enough and it was weird that him and his mum shared a bed. I said the only person who thinks it’s normal is YOU. He said I was weird for thinking like thatHe said I was accusing him of incest He then was very nasty and I was very nasty back. I did also text his aunt and tell her to take her sister to her house.. She said she would get back to me and didn’t. I am not surprised at all.
Me and Mr P haven’t spoken much since and I am still on the bloody sofa BUT stuff is being installed at her house THIS FRIDAY to enable her for downstairs living. (Bars, hospital bed, all that crap) so by rights she should be moving out this weekend I’d like to think?? Though I have heard her crying saying she doesn’t want to go home so I am not getting my hopes up too much. I am also looking for other places to live all the time incase she doesn’t go home soon. We rent so it would be easy enough for me to move out (although really hard to find what I have currently elsewhere within my budget!!!!)
I think you leaving, all be it temporarily, will give him the shock he needs. Choosing his mother over you is not ok.Hi Guys!!
Have had a few days off to deal with the shit. Soooo we got into a huge huge argument about it all... I said that I’d absolutely had enough and it was weird that him and his mum shared a bed. I said the only person who thinks it’s normal is YOU. He said I was weird for thinking like thatHe said I was accusing him of incest He then was very nasty and I was very nasty back. I did also text his aunt and tell her to take her sister to her house.. She said she would get back to me and didn’t. I am not surprised at all.
Me and Mr P haven’t spoken much since and I am still on the bloody sofa BUT stuff is being installed at her house THIS FRIDAY to enable her for downstairs living. (Bars, hospital bed, all that crap) so by rights she should be moving out this weekend I’d like to think?? Though I have heard her crying saying she doesn’t want to go home so I am not getting my hopes up too much. I am also looking for other places to live all the time incase she doesn’t go home soon. We rent so it would be easy enough for me to move out (although really hard to find what I have currently elsewhere within my budget!!!!)
He has it VERY easy with me. I do all the cooking, washing. Cleaning up Etc. Even for her. I even bloody go in to my own bedroom and change the bedsheets every Sunday and I haven’t slept in the fucking bed. When reminded of this he tells me that nobody asks me to do all of these things, but when I stop he says I’m doing it out of spite so I find it very confusing. He has a way with words that make you feel small and stupid for even bringing it up but I’m not standing for it anymore.I think you leaving, all be it temporarily, will give him the shock he needs. Choosing his mother over you is not ok.
But he won’t have you doing all the work. Can you go to an air bnb or hotel short term?He has it VERY easy with me. I do all the cooking, washing. Cleaning up Etc. Even for her. I even bloody go in to my own bedroom and change the bedsheets every Sunday and I haven’t slept in the fucking bed. When reminded of this he tells me that nobody asks me to do all of these things, but when I stop he says I’m doing it out of spite so I find it very confusing. He has a way with words that make you feel small and stupid for even bringing it up but I’m not standing for it anymore.
Appreciate his mum is unwell but he makes out like her being here is the ONLY option when it’s not. He could go to her house and pop back to see us. That would be much better.
I’m actually considering staying at my parents every weekend until she’s gone but it’s not enoughBut he won’t have you doing all the work. Can you go to an air bnb or hotel short term?
Do not do anymore of that until the bat from hell is out of thereHe has it VERY easy with me. I do all the cooking, washing. Cleaning up Etc. Even for her. I even bloody go in to my own bedroom and change the bedsheets every Sunday and I haven’t slept in the fucking bed. When reminded of this he tells me that nobody asks me to do all of these things, but when I stop he says I’m doing it out of spite so I find it very confusing. He has a way with words that make you feel small and stupid for even bringing it up but I’m not standing for it anymore.
Appreciate his mum is unwell but he makes out like her being here is the ONLY option when it’s not. He could go to her house and pop back to see us. That would be much better.
You say you work full time and have a child? Yet you sleep on the sofa? Are you out of your mind?He has it VERY easy with me. I do all the cooking, washing. Cleaning up Etc. Even for her. I even bloody go in to my own bedroom and change the bedsheets every Sunday and I haven’t slept in the fucking bed. When reminded of this he tells me that nobody asks me to do all of these things, but when I stop he says I’m doing it out of spite so I find it very confusing. He has a way with words that make you feel small and stupid for even bringing it up but I’m not standing for it anymore.
Appreciate his mum is unwell but he makes out like her being here is the ONLY option when it’s not. He could go to her house and pop back to see us. That would be much better.
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?
We use cookies and similar technologies for the following purposes:
Do you accept cookies and these technologies?