Noooooo that is horrific, assuming those were 7 adult years too?! That is awful! I funnily saw a lovely wedding photo of a girl I worked with who had an awful time, had a mortgage fall through and then the bf left her (which tbh was a godsend clearly?!) so she used the house money to move abroad and she just got married to someone she met there! Such a lovely ending!
for reference I don’t really mind mine as it was like 18-20 years old, it was always long distance, and tbh I almost don’t blame him because I had such a tunnel vision all I wanted was a first & a good grad scheme (got both
the latter gave me serious mental health issues tho) and that probably wasn’t that fun for him. not that it excuses rudeness!! The most tragique thing is he wouldn’t even rank top 5 of awful men I’ve tried to date.
We should do an awful dating & sex thread on the other site