Hi everyone, just looking for some real life experiences please.
I’m wondering how things went for those of you who naturally (hate this phrase by the way) passed the baby after a miscarriage?
I’ve been bleeding since Sunday and having basically regular contractions for the last 3 days but I don’t actually believe that anything significant has happened? It just seems to be blood. The pain is unbearable at times but the blood loss itself has been quite tame? I was expecting it to be really heavy as the hospital have told me that’s what it’ll be like.
I don’t know how many more days I can actually cope with this pain and it seeming like not much has happened.
Firstly, I’m really sorry this is happening to you.
To share my experience of a ‘natural loss’ at around 9 weeks (second miscarriage)…started bleeding on a Tuesday, really light at first and then continued like a period until Sunday morning when over the course of 2-3 hours I miscarried most of the pregnancy. During that time I was mainly in the bathroom, on the loo and passed quite a few large clots and blood. After that it went back to just light bleeding for a couple more days. I had a scan after a week or so to confirm the loss was complete, which it was.
Like you I kind of expected it to start and then be heavy straight away and be done with but it did take time.
I also had surgical management last year with my first miscarriage and found similar, not a lot of bleeding at first and then 3-4 days later it started.
I don’t think the hospitals necessarily prepare you enough for what to expect.