I could afford a nanny etc if I wanted to but honestly the thought of paying someone else to look after my kids just doesn’t cross my mind because they are my responsibly and I want to do it myself. I do have a cleaner though, worth every penny! I try not to judge those who have paid help but with a nanny all day AND a night nurse I’m not really sure what parenting Millie is actually doing apart from wheeling the kids out for a #ad every now and again.