I’m working full time, managing to look after my child, keep him clean/ fed/stimulated, cook for us, do housework, laundry and grocery shopping and I STILL manage to wash myself, bath my son And change our clothes morning and evening. Now here we have a 17 year old with no real job, whose mum food shops and cooks meals for her, doesn’t drive (so has no responsibility on that front), doesn’t spend a lot of time stimulating or playing with Mabel, has mum and sister onhand in the same house to babysit... the only thing she HAS to do is wash and dress herself and her daughter and somehow she manages to NOT do so every day?