I don't think her issue is with c-sections as a whole, I think she's upset she didn't get to birth vaginally. She's very obviously not over the trauma of the birth and is grieving the one she had planned - and that's okay. For some people it bothers them, for others it doesn't. She hasn't said she will never have one again, just that if there isn't a serious reason to have one then she wants to try for vbacI don’t really get why she’s got a big problem with having a c-section anyway. Your age and the way you gave birth doesn’t define who you are as a mother. She makes out as though it’s a really bad thing that she had no control over her birth and it seems as though it’s made her feel somewhat useless... I honestly don’t know one person who planned their birth and it went the exact way they wanted it to, that’s like planning your future when you have no control over what happens and who comes into or walks out of your life.
I agree! Personally I would love to have a sibling who is a few years older or younger than me, the only sibling I have is a twin brother, and although it was ideal when we were younger, having someone of the same age to play with, as I’ve got older I’ve always thought about how much I would absolutely love a baby sibling in particular!Why is Mia so fixated with a certain 'age gap' between her children. She has so many more things going on like college etc. that are more important for the time being, rather than planning out the gap between her kids. Be thankful you have Mabel and that you were so easily able to fall pregnant in the first place.
I agreeWhy is Mia so fixated with a certain 'age gap' between her children. She has so many more things going on like college etc. that are more important for the time being, rather than planning out the gap between her kids. Be thankful you have Mabel and that you were so easily able to fall pregnant in the first place.
Yeah same I'm an only child as a result of infertility issues and would love to have a younger sibling, but it just isn't possible for everyone. It just angers me how entitled she is about falling pregnant, children grow up and don't stay in the baby phase forever, she's gonna have a wake up call when she has 5 kids close in age and they actually need attention and proper parenting.I agree! Personally I would love to have a sibling who is a few years older or younger than me, the only sibling I have is a twin brother, and although it was ideal when we were younger, having someone of the same age to play with, as I’ve got older I’ve always thought about how much I would absolutely love a baby sibling in particular!
Unfortunately for me though that would never happen as my parents struggled with infertility and had to have IVF to conceive me and my brother. Instead of idolising about her children’s age gaps, she should be thankful she is able to fall pregnant without many issues!
My point being, if a doctor advises a c-section it is usually for a reason.Not true. Birth rights are actually a complicated matter. We have the right to refuse anything in our maternity care before, during and after birth. What drs advise isn’t always for the best of the mother and baby. Please read into it!
I come from a family where there's really big age gaps, my sister's 8 years older then me and my brother's 6 years younger and honestly we aren't close. I wish we had a closer age gap. So I understand where Mia's coming from because I hate the fact that I'm not close to my siblings but my mum's so close to here and there's litterally 2 year age gaps between them.Why is Mia so fixated with a certain 'age gap' between her children. She has so many more things going on like college etc. that are more important for the time being,rather than planning out the gap between her kids. Be thankful you have Mabel and that you were so easily able to fall pregnant in the first place.I agree
My mum has me and my sister 15 months apart and she always says she doesn’t regret it but it was definitely very hard. Like If Mia was a single mum she would feel very lonely and tired. Like my dad worked 12 hours a day to get and income for our family. It made my mum postnatal depression. Don’t get my wrong this doesn’t happen to everyone but it did to my mum. Like Mia would have such close age gaps and it wouldn’t be easy. I think Mia looks at a more aesthetic thing than practical thing. I’d say Mia thinks it’s all about them being all cute and matching and really it’s not that easy. Mia should be grateful for Mabel instead of wishing her life on for the next one
I get it too. There's 17 years between my sister and I and I always wanted a younger sibling to play with. But having 2 or even 3 children under 5, depending on the age gaps, is going to be tough for Mia.Yeah I can see where Mias coming from, there’s 19 years between me and my brother but we’re close nonetheless, but I always wished I had a sibling closer to my age. I’d love my kids to be close in age but I don’t think Mia understands how hard it’s going to get yet
There’s 17 years between me and my brother too!I get it too. There's 17 years between my sister and I and I always wanted a younger sibling to play with. But having 2 or even 3 children under 5, depending on the age gaps, is going to be tough for Mia.
Exactly. She even said herself that her & Beth didn’t get on that well until she got pregnantIt’s also important to remember being close in age doesn’t mean you’ll have a close relationship?
two years between my boys and they’d murder each other if they could
Personally I’m closer to my sibling who’s nine years older than my sibling who’s three years younger, sometimes it’s just a case of who you click with and who you don’t
That is true. I think she just needs to focus on Mabel more before having another child and have fun at college with other people her age.It’s also important to remember being close in age doesn’t mean you’ll have a close relationship?
two years between my boys and they’d murder each other if they could
Personally I’m closer to my sibling who’s nine years older than my sibling who’s three years younger, sometimes it’s just a case of who you click with and who you don’t
But that mightn't have been down to the age difference. Beth spent time with their dad, Mia didn't so that obviously would've put a strain and Beth started staying with their mum more around that time. So don't roll your eyes, it's rude.Exactly. She even said herself that her & Beth didn’t get on that well until she got pregnant
Your first paragraph really made me laugh,the things that seem important when you are a kid eh? lolI had to apologise to someone on the phone for what sounded like a murder taking place (my kids were arguing over jelly) and they just laughed and said it’s fine, I closed the door and moved away
equally if I was on the phone and someone had their kids in the background I wouldn’t care, it’s life
Like you said, I think mia just uses it as an excuse, I’m sure she could stay in the living room whilst people work elsewhere
She deleted the tik tokThis just appeared on my fyp, wow she’s not even provided any information
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