Mel @mjbyrnex

[sassy666666]

I initially thought her stories were interesting and I did think wow she’s a strong woman who’s survived a hell of a lot of trauma. The more I’ve watched her I find her quite distasteful and some of it a bit disturbing esp around discussing her sex life. She’s proper f*cked in the head. She needs to get off TT and work on her self awareness.

 

[notSUBmissive]

My reflection on the root cause of how it was possible for any followers to bring Mels step children into discussions recently =

Firstly Mel chose to monetise her private life on social media inc her step children, as she talked specifically about about step families for months.
Then, both Mel and her husband shared pictures and names of the children on public SOCIAL media platforms open for all to see.
Then, Mel created drama by criticism g her step Children's Mothers.
Then, Mel PUBLICLY shared the childrens private thoughts about their sexuality online.

Once you monetise your whole life on social media and you actively encourage people to follow you so you make more money, you are exceptionally nieve to assume people won't also look at your other social media platforms. It's how social media works!

Mel & her husband appear to not comprehend how social media works. It's like buying a new house, inviting people to see the new house, but expecting everyone to only view one room? When people have come to see the whole house.

Mel and her husband have totally and utterly brought recent events on themselves, but instead of self reflecting on how THEY allowed their children to become public entities by sharing their private pictures, their names, their thoughts and their words online, they doubled down and tried to blame everyone else as usual.

Mel constantly talks about, screenshotting other people's posts BUT finds it bizarre when other people screenshot her posts!
Make it make sense

If you want people to "mind their own business" don't monetise yours and your childrens private life, don't share their names, pictures and thoughts online, and don't talk publicly about riding their father's face during sex when you know that his child is watching you, because funnily enough thats called drama and people love to watch drama! Something Mel the DRAMA graduate knows full well!

 

[Delia Smith]

in Mel’s world it’s do as I say not as I do. No wonder her husband looks like he’s being held hostage by her.

 

[tiredandcrabby]

Christ, she's absolutely gross. Nothing else to add. Just, ew.

 

[tiredandcrabby]

The fucking idiot and others like her are totally rinsing the police in this country. You have a public platform, stop running crying to the police every time someone calls you a twat!! Wtf is that about?!
Also haha why would you assume someone on Tattle sent a message that specific and detailed?! Get over yourself Mel, we don't care enough for a start.
Also, she forgets that to search for a thread on here, you have to have an account. So she's already signed up for a tattle account then! I discovered this the other week when I couldn't remember my log on for tattle and without it I couldn't search the site, only look at the home page and the most popular threads on there. So, she's happy to use Tattle, just call it a nasty 'troll' site when it involves her. Kthen.

And she's massively punching above her weight with her husband. She really should stop treating him like dog shit.

 

[Bbang]

She is far too reliant on external validation and this narrative that she is really important to her stepchildren. It’s great that they have a good relationship, but I know that in her head she sees herself as their mother - and the better mother. It’s like a Channel 5 lunchtime movie!
This will all come crashing down in some way. Pain demands to be felt, as they say. Trauma can only be buried or glossed over for so long.

This!! She sees herself as their better mother, it’s quite awful to watch. And actually something I can relate to! My dad’s wife did stuff like this, she’s nice and all but she’s not my mum. And I’ll never forget the ways she tried to piss on my mums chips all the time, the subtle undermining, the backhanded comments and the put downs etc etc. My lovely mum never retaliated but I always knew it bothered her greatly.

At the end of the day, I was never going to pick some random my dad found online over my mum

 

[notSUBmissive]

My god she is so condescending and cocky towards her husband, she treats him like he's an imbecile!
They did a fit check earlier and she stands over him like his mother, she pounced on him to fix his collar like a mother would to a child. I half expected her to lick her fingers and do his hair!
He's managed to get to 38 without Mel mothering him! Their relationship dynamic gets weirder and weirder!
Mummy Mel and Baby Andrew

He even said "Thanks Mummy!"

 

[MadGal]

Jesus wept, that just screams nonce behaviour.

Absolutely vile thing to say! Not sure I’d want supporters who thought like that if it’s not Mel herself writing it

How are police not done with these ‘creators’ that constantly complain to them, imagine how many times of day they hear ‘so and so of tattle and comment cafe said my moms name to a bunch of other strangers’ fucking hell man I’d be dead embarrassed knowing I myself had named my family, shared pictures and personal details about them to thousands of people on the internet!

Looks like she’s not working today probably too busy making a load of profiles on comment cafe!

 

[ZedsDead]

Narcissist's bingo card right there...

Open and honest
I'm not a bad person
I need to heal
I'm doing this to raise awareness
Forced tears
I owe it to you guys blah blah blah

I never post on this thread but this lassie pops up on my fyp constantly. The epitome of 'poor me' syndrome which litters this fucking app, I'm absolutely pig sick of it. People constantly wanting affirmation, sympathy and playing the victim. Calling out narcissistic behaviour with no insight into their own self-absorbed actions.

 

[shaza786]

I think it's becoming more apparent there is a self serving agenda behind her content and it's to do with money effectively. This is why the mask is almost slipping every so often . It's absolutely not about helping other and healing her self . She's literally buzzing when she announces she's just shagged her man. Bizarre behaviour

 

[Daisy9999]

When a creator has to put a post up asking their followers what type of content they want to see they should just stop posting. It’s clearly not for them if they’re having to ask.

 

[Ejo27]

“This will be the last time I address the trolls” …. She’s said that at least 4 times now

 

[notSUBmissive]

How long was she on her live for?!

I caught a few minutes where she said she watches another tiktoker who talks about trauma. But we are told as soon as she stops filming her tiktoks her trauma isn't in her head and she just lives her normal life???

Is it in her head when she relaxes by watching other people's trauma tiktoks instead of relaxing things?
Is it in her head when she's sat planning what aspect of her trauma to film?
Is it in her head when she's constantly bothering the police about it?
Is it in her head when she's ringing and emailing various people to find out about her childhood?
Is it in her head when she's supposed to be working but she's filming and recording things about her trauma all day?
Is it in her head when she chooses not to socialise with colleagues at work at lunch but instead goes to her car to talk about trauma for an hour everytime she's in the office?
Is it in her head when she's doing lengthy lives talking about her trauma?

Mel is consumed by her past, it dominates her whole being, the only person who cannot see that is Mel who LOVES talking about herself! Obsessed is an understatement.

I was once unwell when having my trauma therapy and I called my psychologist and asked if she would come to my home as I was too unwell to goto her, her reply was a flat no, she said talking about my trauma therapy was really a bad idea to bring into my home unless absolutely necessary as my home is my safe space.

Same with my police video evidence which I had to watch before the trial, I asked if the detective would come to me and she said a flat out no, she said its against our policy to bring such trauma into your home because your home is your sanctuary.

Mels home, Mels marriage, Mels life. Mels lengthy evening lives are OVERFLOWING with her past, despite multiple times in therapy, multiple times online "sharing her story" and multiple time on tiktok telling the same stories over and over and over.
Mel chooses to repeat her trauma / her relationship with her mother and brother so much so it's actually disturbing how desperate she still is to repeat visiting it over and over in her own home every single day and night.

Therapists who work 37 hrs a week helping people talk about their trauma have therapy themselves as its too much for any one person to spend talking so much about trauma.

37hrs a week isn't even scratching the surface with the amount of hours Mel dedicates to her obsession with herself and her childhood!??

 

[MadGal]

There was also another comment which seems to have been removed from the other site.
‘If I want your comeback, I’ll wipe it off your mum’s chin’ - that was assumed to be Mel or Andrew. She is disgusting.

Those replies sounded like Mel everything is so over sexualised, so so strange she 100% sounds like she takes after her mother when it comes to things like that!

So glad Tattle is locked down the way it is the amount of times someone over on CC has screamed bullying! How is having an opinion on someone bullying? Glad we don’t have to have the idiots coming over here!

 

[Whatever123]

Moany Mel! Every day is the same crap. She must have the most boring life to dwell on her past like this and plaster it all over the internet for attention. Honestly, get to therapy and get a life! If she stopped talking about it, they’d leave her alone? It’s quite simple. And all this bollocks about wanting to create a safe place for others and helping others…. How? All she does is talk about her situation 24/7.

 

[shaza786]

I initially thought her stories were interesting and I did think wow she’s a strong woman who’s survived a hell of a lot of trauma. The more I’ve watched her I find her quite distasteful and some of it a bit disturbing esp around discussing her sex life. She’s proper f*cked in the head. She needs to get off TT and work on her self awareness.

She's comes across as very self centred and a bit of a narcissist her self . She got pulled up for doing TikTok lives whilst working from home . Quite rightly so . Her clap back video to that was very telling . I agree she needs to come off TT and get help if that's what she needs . It's seems her whole personality is about her child hood trauma

 

[Bbang]

Why has she even posted that video? Other than to seek sympathy? If I had a thread on tattle I’d take it to my grave

I’ll never understand these ‘influencer’ types whatever she is. She has her own comment section that people can comment in. Her own little echo chamber and loves it, so why does she think others can’t have a space to speak their own thoughts? Just because she doesn’t like what we think doesn’t mean we’re not allowed to voice it. Controlling as ever Mel.

No one here is trolling her, or leaving nasty comment on her account. No one here is making multiple videos about her like she has us and everyone else in her life who displeases her

Mel, get over it hun. Take your own advice and if you don’t like it don’t read it! Simple.

 

[notSUBmissive]

Let's look at who's put Mels step children in any of the danger Mel is alleging in her post earlier -

Was it their dad when he posted where he & their step mother lived publicly on Facebook, if as we are to believe Mels hysterics re her step childrens safety.

Was it their dad & Mel who both made their social media pages public whilst posting dozens of pictures of the children? (I didn't see these two myself but it was mentioned further up the thread)

Was it Mel when she decided to expose & humiliate her whole estranged family online for shits & giggles multiple times a day knowing each video could upset & aggrevate her whole estranged family who have according to Mel threatened to kill her previously?

Was it Mel when she spent many months criticising her step children's mothers online, could Mels behaviour affect her step children ?

Was it Mel & her husbands fault for doing a tiktok live when drinking beer & who discussed the names of places in the town they live in for all of their followers to hear?

Was it Mel who nastily, deliberately & humiliatingly called her estranged brothers children filthy, smelly, dirty. Children who have nothing to do with her "trauma". Could Mel doing this cause problems for her and her family?

Was it Mel who regularly talks about her sex life on tiktok? Could this cause her step children to get bullied & put them at risk?

And Mel has the audacity to say anyone else has put her step children at risk.

 

[Cem75]

She directed people to this thread multiple times. Surely you wouldn’t want attention being drawn to it?

Also don’t think anyone has been vile, I myself was a huge supporter of her but her behaviour and attitude recently has put me right off.

 

[StarrySkies]

Jesus, it's like watching AJ and Curtis in Hollyoaks