ariesmum2020
Chatty Member
I really adore her, and the babies are just so gorgeous.
While I agree it should be private, that part of your post about 'fathers choosing if they can cope with fatherhood' is absolute bull. Don't want kids? Great, don't have sex. Or get a vasectomy. So gross that you think men should just be able to opt out of taking responsibility for children they helped create.I’m not being funny but why has this turned into a full on debate about the father when all that was said was ‘there’s two sides to every story.’
Maia says he’s a deadbeat dad so that’s what people believe, no one knows the reasoning behind why he doesn’t want apart of those girls life’s so how about you all stop judging him. Don’t assume you know a whole life story from what their mother is portraying.
Get a grip. A father should be able to choose if they are able to cope with fatherhood just like the mother does. A mother can go and get an abortion and have all the say but when a father says they aren’t financially or emotionally ready to parent not one, but two babies then they are abused online.
I’m not saying his choice to leave her a single mother is right however I won’t judge a stranger for what a woman says online. None of you know that man personally so none of you have a right to slate him. And Maia should think twice before exposing her children’s life stories on the internet. They already have to deal with the trauma of no biological father at present (since he could return to their life’s in the future, which you haters also do not know if he will or not) and to make things worse their mother rinsed their sob story for her own financial benefit and plain and simply for attention and sympathy.
She should’ve been mature enough to keep their private business just that - PRIVATE. I would hope that she would’ve had a grown up discussion about whether they should continue with the pregnancy or not and where their financial and emotional status stands. Then all choices from there should be 50/50 since it impacts both life’s hugely. Though the way she’s made it public it seems they’re both as immature as each other.
It’s not so much the content she makes it’s more the volume and regularity of it. The fans have become so accustomed to getting multiple videos of the babies a day that they’ve become entitled to it. The comment section is really scary sometimes, full of people who feel like they know the babies personally. The majority are probably harmless but there’s always going to be some people out there who are sick in the head and have other intentions. Those babies will get recognised forever with their unique names and being twins, even if Maia left tiktok now when they go to school people will remember them and remember seeing videos of them in the bath etc. it’s just too much.I don’t follow her but have liked a lot of videos of her on my fyp, honestly in terms of what she ‘shares’ it seems pretty OK to me? It’s 60 seconds or so of the babies having a bottle or having lunch, I’ve never seen her share anything * personal * but I’m sure that’ll get harder to navigate once they get older and develop personalities.
That being said I just watched a live of her and she definitely seemed down and like she was in a bad mood/snappy. She was obviously getting tons of questions but just kept choosing multiple comments about the fact it’s not fair she’s not verified and then repeatedly telling people she works from home as an influencer and that’s a real job. There was also a lot of comments about her not acknowledging the gifts she was being sent on live. I feel like that’s an awkward situation for her because she doesn’t seem like someone who openly accepts and gushes about receiving things, but at the same time we all know that’s why creators come on live and it’s the done thing to say thank you when someone says something..
Jesus Christ.I really like her but was only following her for those sweet babies. She thinks her 8 million followers will stay loyal even though she stops showing them. her words not mine. I beg to differ. Don’t think she’s all that interesting. I unfollowed.![]()
As stated before you’re very clearly an obsessive fan so I won’t entertain your nonsense.Cute suggestion, I’ll respond to you however I want. Any man with a moral compass would likely not feel comfortable with millions of people watching his children grow up fatherless on social media knowing he could’ve done the absolute bare minimum but choose to do nothing. What possible other “side” to the story could there be and what evidence do you have to support your theory? If you feel this conversation is an overreaction why engage at all?
He didn’t want kids with her, he told her to get an abortion and told her not to contact him again, he’s a deadbeat who has never met or supported his kids. He is not a victim of the mother. If he cared so much about his reputation why would he stand by and allow millions of people, including any of his friends and family who are aware he’s the father and could easily put 2+2 together, to think he’s never financially supported or met his own children if that’s not the case? Surely if he cared this being public knowledge would be embarrassing, having his character slandered like that, so where is his side of the story? That alone speaks volumes to who he is. He has legal rights to them as their biological father whether his name is on their birth certificates or not and maybe you think court systems are biased against the father but he could easily get the visitation he’s entitled to in family court. Clearly you feel that men who are deadbeat parents are needlessly victimized, somehow victims of women who perhaps selfishly brought children into the world they didn’t want boo hoo, maybe you think that he doesn’t deserve negative things said about him if he didn’t want to be a dad and she had them anyway. You feel the need to defend him, to suggest there’s possibly “more” what evidence do you have?
He is equally responsible for them on a moral level and you’ll criticize the mother for taking responsibility and raising them while excusing the father of any kind of responsibility because there’s always “another side” to the story, clearly your own biases show that you need to project your own feelings of sympathy onto him which you cannot extend to his children or to Maia who picked up his slack? Men father children they never planned for or wanted and man up and take responsibility for the sake of their kids. The fact that you think there’s “another side” hardly contributes anything, with absolutely no evidence to suggest he’s anything but a man who did not take responsibility for his own actions, speaks to your own misogyny.
You think a grown man would allow public opinion on tiktok to scare him from telling the truth? Really? His reputation is already in the gutter what else does he have to lose? You’d believe him, so would others.
Her comments are ridiculous. One of her videos came up in my FYP and the comments were all frantic because she hadn’t posted in 24 hours and they were all ‘worried something had happened’, ‘missed their babies’ etc. I feel like once you hit the point people think something serious has happened when you don’t post for only 24 hours, that’s when you should reconsider posting as often as you do.It’s not so much the content she makes it’s more the volume and regularity of it. The fans have become so accustomed to getting multiple videos of the babies a day that they’ve become entitled to it. The comment section is really scary sometimes, full of people who feel like they know the babies personally. The majority are probably harmless but there’s always going to be some people out there who are sick in the head and have other intentions. Those babies will get recognised forever with their unique names and being twins, even if Maia left tiktok now when they go to school people will remember them and remember seeing videos of them in the bath etc. it’s just too much.
"Is that ummy" really grates on me. TALK TO THEM PROPERLYI’m just sick of the baby talk![]()
I don’t understand how much more there can be to “the whole truth”??No one but Maia and the father know the whole truth so no one can assume anything about their situation either way.
However I do think it is in poor taste for her to say things about him to 7.5 million followers, not for his sake but for the twins sake. Maia has gone way past the point of no return now. The girls will never be anonymous again. The full details of how their father didn’t want them is published for the world’s entertainment. Even if she came off social media forever, every little detail of their life is public knowledge. When they go to school and people see twins with their names they’ll know who they are straight away.