Love how you described gardening, so true and so beautifully articulated.I just get a good chuckle out of Madeleine pretending to be interested in gardening when it's clear she absolutely bloody hates it . She'll summon up a shred of enthusiasm if there's money involved, but otherwise it's "too untidy and messy". She hates it because she can't control what goes on in the garden like she can with indoors stuff and the people around her. Not being in control is hugely scary for her and is probably one of the root causes for many of her anxieties. It's a shame because spending more time in the garden might actually help her. Spending time in a garden can really shift your perception of what 'perfect' actually is. Plants will do what they want - you can lavish them with care and they will still die just to spite you, get eaten by bugs, or even reward you with lovely food and flowers.
It's clear that Maddie isn't keen on gardening but loves to come across as someone who likes gardening, if that makes sense. I don't even think she particularly enjoys cooking that much. Her and Alex seem to order out a lot for two people who work from home and have a youtube channel that largely revolves around food.