There's an adage that says "The message is lost on the messenger," and that's the case with Lydia. I have no problem with hard work, success, and living our best lives.She is too big for her boots as they say. Still, her portrayal seems impressive, needless to say it's sickening and a facade.
However, the way Lydia gloats and carries on like a buffoon...
makes here look absurd and rubs me (and a lot of people) the wrong way. And the only reason it even matters is that she's a content creator, and it's her business to be likable, relatable and push products. So, if people are collectively rolling their eyes, it's not because they're envious or don't like her face. There's so much more too it.