That does make sense tooI think she briefly mentioned once in a video that “one of her channels had been breached”, but thats all she said about it, unless I missed something. (That was in the video she uploaded about being vulnerable at Nicky’s house). She probably told Carrie and Ali that someone had screenshot the picture and uploaded it to tattle. Them being unaware it’s actually Lydia, went into a panic and removed people they didn’t trust. Lydia’s ‘followers’ numbers on her personal account didn’t decline like theirs did. Because she knows the truth, that there isn’t actually a mole. I have screenshots with dates of everything. I have suspected it for a long time so I have been noting things down in my phone. If I had the time I would make a video of them all now but I’m still working during lockdown. TeaSpiller being online until 1pm yesterday, then Lydia indirectly moaning on her story from 1pm, this is one example. I have many more. Lydia made a video the same week the TeaSpiller account was made, complaining about being compared to other women (InTheFrow). In one of their first posts TeaSpiller pointed out ITF lives in Milton Keynes. This was a little F You to us tattlers for comparing Lydia to her and mocking her for living in Northampton instead of Buckinghamshire. She probably thought ‘at least I live in a better location than ITF’. Why would a member of Ali’s family (this is who TeaSpiller is claiming to be) who dislikes Lydia want to point out to us where ITF lives and how would they even know anything about Victoria/ITF.
Lydia did mention the whole wedding was free but she could be smug about that, hence why she told us as in a ‘Ha, all of you had to pay for yours, I didn’t’, or it’s just another negative comment to make us believe it’s someone who dislikes her.
I’m just putting a few pointers out. If someone can debunk them, thats fine. I’m very open minded. This is why I’ve been dying to say something for so long. A lot of you know more details than I do so can have a clearer image of it all and make better sense of my suspicions, if that makes sense. It’s nice to finally get someone’s opinion on it as it’s not something I could discuss with one of my friends. Nobody watches her or knows what tattle is so they wouldn’t get it.
haha I know what you mean - nobody in my life would ever have heard of the woman! Can't believe I found her because I was looking at Kitchens on IG and found her previous version and loved it! The one with the cornforth white cabinetry and railings island. I know waaaaaay too much about her paint colours, lol!! I'm now gutted every time I see that dank, depressing colour she's slopped all over her house, and am just watching the train wreck.
I also have a sister who has NPD - the malignant sort - and it triggers me to see how the manipulation and lies work, because it brings back awful experiences. The fact she can bare-faced say she's basically only changed paint colours and a few bits of furniture is just bizarre - as someone here said - an 'alternate reality' - that's exactly what these people do. Change history whenever it suits their narrative - a form of gaslighting.
OK, won't go on but you get the drift.
Bring on the pointers, and detective work - I'm here for the 'tea' (pun intended) any day of the week!