happyforest
Chatty Member
So by that logic, if a rapist rapes you, it's not their fault you didn't enjoy it. Or if you're mercilessly bullied, that's on you, you shouldn't be upset at being terrorized. Or if you're murdered, you shouldn't have let them kill you. Why did you take the murdering so literally and die?Yes! This was part of her final exam, before she graduated from therapy.
“Not everyone is going to like you or agree with you all the time. They will hear what they want to hear based on their current level of consciousness.Therefore you can say whatever you feel like saying, without any consequences. Because no matter what you say, those pesky haters are going to squish your words regardless. When they disagree or call you out on something you said, simply turn the responsibility back on them, after all, what they heard is not your problem.”
This is what these so called therapists and gurus spout and it’s toxic af. Removes all responsibility from the person, allows them to blame it all on you, and I don’t think there’s anything spiritual about it at all. I think a big part of spirituality is self growth, reflection and compassion. I guess Lydia either missed the classes on those topics, or she chose to disregard them completely. She hasn’t grown at all, and certainly not learned any lessons. She is still as self centred, ignorant and arrogant as she was, before she ‘graduated’. This sickly sweet glaze she puts on won’t hide the rotten interior.
Seeing what happened with Johnny and Amber's court case, words matter. A lot. Lydia can keep trying to shift the focus back on the audience for their critical reactions, but at the end of the day, it's her output people are responding to. The insidious wizardry of "life coaches" is deeply concerning. That they're out there making money out of schooling assholes into thinking they're always right, full of light and rainbows is beyond disgusting.