Something has sat right with me with this family for awhile and now baldgate has heightened it. I get a really really weird nervy vibe off their posts now, I don't know what it is but I wouldn't leave my child in their care.
I used to admire this family and thought they seemed genuine, not anymore... Definately strange vibes from them.
Take away the money for fostering and I'm now wondering if they would still do it? They give me strong "white saviour" vibes now, and I really think they believe they are above others due to their fostering and charitable work and therefore are exempt from critism and negativity.
I do wonder if Lydia would have the guts to stand up to her mother and say something if she was upset by it. I know she laughed it off, but she could have still been shocked and now she's thought about it maybe she's annoyed. I'm still upset a grown woman thought that was an ok thing to do to a 3month old baby just because she "couldn't stand in anymore" and she's not even my baby. Heaven help Loretta if she develops her own thoughts, opinions, characteristics, hobbies etc' as she grows up that granny "can't stand." No wonder Lydia has surprised us all with how she is not as maternal as we thought she would be if her mum is her role model & guidance, probably in her ear telling her how to do things all the time.