Same here I’m a first time mum and my baby has just turned one, I didn’t have much of a clue what I was doing at first but I don’t think it takes a genius to figure out that if your baby is screaming cos she’s hungry then you feed her, also we have google at our finger tips, I remember some of my 3am google searches - “why does my baby wake up as soon as I put her down” “why is my baby feeding all night long” etc etc, that was literally all I had to do to figure out that what was going on was normal, Lydia doesn’t want to hear that it’s normal for Loretta to want holding and feeding throughout the night though, she wants to find ways to stop her from acting like a normal baby, it’s lazy and selfish, and as someone else has said - she was able to look up some so-called baby expert on insta and sit there going through some bullshit routine to use on Loretta but she couldn’t just have a quick google and see that yes, babies wake in the night for feeds, she isn’t innocently making some mistakes because she’s clueless, she’s deliberately doing things which are of benefit to her and which meet her own needs before the babys