I know setting boundaries can be really important (I have the MIL from hell) but to act like people need to "pull their weight" with your chores in your house with the baby you decided to have its so arrogant. Just like you the more I see it or think about it, it's so bratty. Loads of women see their friendship groups go smaller when they have kids and this will give people an excuse to keep away, she'll be in for such a shock when/if that happens and she has to actually look after her own baby AND keep on top of the housework