I'm finding this thread the best - only? - place to get any idea of what is going on. Thanks to all for their expertise, opinions, debates.
I have always thought how blessed people are to have twins. I wonder if she was jealous of their good fortune which is why she particularly targeted them.I can imagine it’s hard either way. I know two people who both sadly lost children and one had no other children and the other had a younger sibling.
The one with the second child had to somewhat keep going for her and are still able to experience being a parent and the joys that come with that. but they are also challenged by the younger sibling now being older than the child they lost. And all special occasions are clouded with the eldest not being there. I imagine with multiples it would be harder because you are celebrating the birthday of one child knowing it’s also the birthday of the child you lost. I believe birthdays are the hardest day for many grieving parents.
The couple I know who lost their only child is completely different though. Birthdays and Christmas they don’t really have any joy now (their words not mine). They only hope for peace on those days. I can’t help but feel their situation is sadder.
God all situations are awful and I’m sure those with other babies and children just wish they could hide for the entire day sometimes but I also think they will be incredibly grateful for having the other children. They will feel all those emotions at once.
I’m a twin but I don’t know how blessed my mother felt. She didn’t know she was having twins until after my twin sister was born, during a home delivery, and the midwife said ‘there’s another one in there’ and I came out, bum first, 20 minutes later. We both weighed 6lb 6oz.I have always thought how blessed people are to have twins. I wonder if she was jealous of their good fortune which is why she particularly targeted them.
Yeah if someone had said that to me after my baby was born I wouldn't have felt blessed! What a trooper!I’m a twin but I don’t know how blessed my mother felt. She didn’t know she was having twins until after my twin sister was born, during a home delivery, and the midwife said ‘there’s another one in there’ and I came out, bum first, 20 minutes later. We both weighed 6lb 6oz.
That was a long, long time ago!
Can you imagine what it must have been like in Victorian times, before antibiotics and vaccines were available? Something like 50% of children never made it past 5 years old, and if you look around any old churchyard you will find headstones listing a succession of children and babies succumbing to an infectious disease. I just don't know how they coped, it doesn't bear thinking about.There’s someone on Insta who lost a baby to cot death at 9 months, which was obviously a huge & devastating shock for them.
Just can’t even begin to imagine the pain that these parents must feel.
This case has been going on so long as well, it must be awful to constantly have this hanging over them. I hope justice is done for them.
Love this story!I’m a twin but I don’t know how blessed my mother felt. She didn’t know she was having twins until after my twin sister was born, during a home delivery, and the midwife said ‘there’s another one in there’ and I came out, bum first, 20 minutes later. We both weighed 6lb 6oz.
That was a long, long time ago!
Yes it’s awful isn’t it and all the people that ended up in the workhouses and their poor babies died and suffered, just horrendousCan you imagine what it must have been like in Victorian times, before antibiotics and vaccines were available? Something like 50% of children never made it past 5 years old, and if you look around any old churchyard you will find headstones listing a succession of children and babies succumbing to an infectious disease. I just don't know how they coped, it doesn't bear thinking about.
This reminds me of that friends episode “another who will be along in a what now”I’m a twin but I don’t know how blessed my mother felt. She didn’t know she was having twins until after my twin sister was born, during a home delivery, and the midwife said ‘there’s another one in there’ and I came out, bum first, 20 minutes later. We both weighed 6lb 6oz.
That was a long, long time ago!
I still think in the long run your mum was blessed although at first it was probably hard work for her and you had a sister and friend to grow up with.I’m a twin but I don’t know how blessed my mother felt. She didn’t know she was having twins until after my twin sister was born, during a home delivery, and the midwife said ‘there’s another one in there’ and I came out, bum first, 20 minutes later. We both weighed 6lb 6oz.
That was a long, long time ago!
This is just my understanding from what we’ve read.It’s been a while so I have a few questions excuse me if they’re stupid
Are the blood glucose levels the only thing that points to the first bag having insulin in?
we’ve heard the reason for insulin not being mixed into the TPN is because it would bind and stick to the plastic so it would be impossible to give a consistent dose, but we’re being told two or more bags were poisoned but managed to give a pretty consistent does over 17hours which doesn’t make sense or am I missing something with this part?
also it says they calculated a dose of 0.56ml/hr or something like that so would that be like 9ml she’d have injected into the bags in total? And is that a lot?
Yes this was my point. there are defo still people, especially on facebook preaching the babies were ill anyway. I’m not sure if it is one of those things that is hard to comprehend if you haven’t experienced it. I have lost count of how many times a nurse must have said to me ‘he will be ok babies bounce back’ which honestly is true.You know what as well now I'm looking at it differently little things are popping into my head. My youngest was a very high risk pregnancy. I was told before the birth he would be in neo natal for at least a few weeks, I had my own room before the birth and he had a crash team with equipment waiting for him when he was born as they said he would have breathing difficulties. I had a haemorrhage during the birth and he was 4lb 10oz, he needed NO assistance whatsoever and was straight on the boc boc like a trooper. The next day we were released. He had those blood sugar tests and they told me he had to have 3 successful blood sugar readings in a row to be discharged and to be aware babies never have 3 in a row straight away. Of course my baby had 3 in a row straight away. I've said it before in the thread he does have mild CP (doesn't stop him trashing my house and wreaking havoc though) but my point is little tiny babies are alot more resilient and strong then we give them credit for.
From a legal perspective,It’s been a while so I have a few questions excuse me if they’re stupid
Are the blood glucose levels the only thing that points to the first bag having insulin in?
we’ve heard the reason for insulin not being mixed into the TPN is because it would bind and stick to the plastic so it would be impossible to give a consistent dose, but we’re being told two or more bags were poisoned but managed to give a pretty consistent does over 17hours which doesn’t make sense or am I missing something with this part?
also it says they calculated a dose of 0.56ml/hr or something like that so would that be like 9ml she’d have injected into the bags in total? And is that a lot?
there’s no way insulin has got in those bags at the lab. I’d think tomorrow will clarify thisI wonder if they are getting the staff who prepared the bags to testify. As I know even on this thread it’s been mentioned maybe contamination from where they were made up (and I know it’s been explained by others it’s not possible) so they must want to make that clear to jury.
You're absolutely right and I do think the fact that the victims are premature and/or poorly babies is a big part of why some people were so convinced she must be NG and the victim of a cover-up. The average person is convinced premature babies would have died anyway and I'll admit even I didn't realise how resilient they were until I read around the subject. She reminds me more and more of Harold Shipman every day: so many people convinced of his innocence felt that because his victims were old women they were basically at death's door, even though most of them were healthy women with more years ahead.You know what as well now I'm looking at it differently little things are popping into my head. My youngest was a very high risk pregnancy. I was told before the birth he would be in neo natal for at least a few weeks, I had my own room before the birth and he had a crash team with equipment waiting for him when he was born as they said he would have breathing difficulties. I had a haemorrhage during the birth and he was 4lb 10oz, he needed NO assistance whatsoever and was straight on the boc boc like a trooper. The next day we were released. He had those blood sugar tests and they told me he had to have 3 successful blood sugar readings in a row to be discharged and to be aware babies never have 3 in a row straight away. Of course my baby had 3 in a row straight away. I've said it before in the thread he does have mild CP (doesn't stop him trashing my house and wreaking havoc though) but my point is little tiny babies are alot more resilient and strong then we give them credit for.
Thank you he's brilliant. I am having to push for a bespoke pram for him and potentially he could need a wheelchair to get about outdoors but that's a worst case scenario. He's a little terror thoughYes this was my point. there are defo still people, especially on facebook preaching the babies were ill anyway. I’m not sure if it is one of those things that is hard to comprehend if you haven’t experienced it. I have lost count of how many times a nurse must have said to me ‘he will be ok babies bounce back’ which honestly is true.
I hope your son is doing well and you have the right support in placeI also agree with your post yesterday about hindsight because there is a few things with my Son that are now obvious in hindsight but because he had other things wrong with him nurses put it down to that but it actually had nothing to do with it.
I think at the time it is very unlikely people assumed there was a murderer on the loose and definitely would have been trying to find valid explanations x
9m is a massive amount of insulin, they come in 10ml vials. Also 9ml is just what the baby would have had until the TPN stopped, there would have been more in the bag overall. Then there's the potential second bag. You'd notice entire vials of insulin going missing surely!It’s been a while so I have a few questions excuse me if they’re stupid
Are the blood glucose levels the only thing that points to the first bag having insulin in?
we’ve heard the reason for insulin not being mixed into the TPN is because it would bind and stick to the plastic so it would be impossible to give a consistent dose, but we’re being told two or more bags were poisoned but managed to give a pretty consistent does over 17hours which doesn’t make sense or am I missing something with this part?
also it says they calculated a dose of 0.56ml/hr or something like that so would that be like 9ml she’d have injected into the bags in total? And is that a lot?