I get you I really do, and knowing your family member is to be " put through" a post mortem is horendous, (ive been there and it traumatised me)let alone a tiny baby

The parents have already shown that they had so much trust in everyone so would have accepted the cause of death as being that....
In my experience as a nurse also, it's hard to " tell" a family or be there when a family member is being told that a post mortem is needed....it's just awful...but sometimes it has to be done, to obviously determine the cause of death.
I'm not for one second saying she may have had any idea that foul play is involved, I just think, as a consultant it was a massive mistake, which i'm sure she knows!!
I'm just putting myself in the shoes as best I can of the parents of baby E and F and also of the other babies...if there was a chance she could have been stopped there( if guilty).....would she have stopped though...that's another question
