This is just a guess, but she's younger than him and I believe he really wanted them to settle down for real with a bunch of kids, while she still needs to have a lot of freedom to do crazy challenges, ultras, travels etc. Maybe they just wanted different lives in the end.I think both of there social media’s are showing what they want the other to see
Ben struggling with his mental health and how to cope
Lucy smashing life experiences and doing great without him
I had a theory that he was the dumpee, Lucy probably left. It seemed she posted they split and seems to be doing well since, and someone mentioned a podcast she was in that dropped comments of distrust / low self esteem due to his actions. He then seemed in a dark place or was using the split for his lonely chapter. She seems to be doing great without him though so pat on the back for focusing on herself even if it does seem shes keeping too busy to deal with things!I don’t think either of them as shared but Ben did a video recently and he sounded like he’d been in a VERY dark place at points since their split
I also don’t think she injured her forearm as badly as she made out she did, I think this was an excuse for her ‘disappointing’ result!She was so upset about her performance at hyrox pro im not sure why she would risk things again. Or is she lining up an excuse as why if she doesn’t get the WR
She mentioned on her vlog she’d lost weight as she’d been going through a stressful time. She was wearing a band on her ring finger but not the engagement ring. Her sister was also staying over at her house which made me think she’s in the house without him.A few comments have started to pop up on her youtube now. I noticed she deleted some from her tik toks asking about them. I think she would thrive without him as it’s been mentioned before his attitude towards both her and cal on the podcast is terrible, i have often thought about the way he may speak to her behind closed doors if his attitude stinks in public.. i think he is a man with a very fragile ego & cannot handle her success![]()
Ben had posted something about him being a rat a while ago? Or the company he’s associated with. He looks like he’s had a face lift on Lucy’s storiesAren’t they both just BPN athletes? Or do we think there’s something going on there?