Oh whoops I didn't notice the year! Thanks for pointing it out. I think a lot of people misread like me so maybe still not a great idea hahaIs that a memorial for 9/11? The year is 1990 which is pre 9/11?
Oh whoops I didn't notice the year! Thanks for pointing it out. I think a lot of people misread like me so maybe still not a great idea hahaIs that a memorial for 9/11? The year is 1990 which is pre 9/11?
after that outraged response yesterday where she fiercely denied the accusation that she treats the girls differently and makes it very obvious that she favours Darcy, i think the wording of her post today was very telling. dedicating an entire post to her reunion with Darcy and highlighting how much she missed her, alongside a load of "treasured" photos of her eldest daughter - with a fleeting mention of (Pearl) totally disproved her denial that Darcy is her favourite. the way that she added brackets around Pearl's name was so unnecessary, and a very visual way to highlight that Pearl is always an afterthought. it will undoubtedly cause Pearl a great amount of hurt in the future.She's put her post about being reunited with Darcey on her story aswell. It disgusts me how differently she treats her girls
Why on earth would anyone ask her for Covid advice, considering she’s managed to catch it twice? I get it must be extremely hard to avoid when you’ve got school age children, but it’s pretty clear she hasn’t tried. It’s one thing to decide that on balance you’re willing to risk your health to see your mouse overlord for the second time in four months (not that it’s wise), but saying you ‘felt safe’ being surrounded by a load of people when there’s an airborne virus on the loose is completely idiotic.Not sure what that dedication was for! Maybe the opening of that airport? Or maybe the MD-11 jet service? Not sure
But I felt this response was rather insensitive. What about the people that lost loved ones to coronavirus? Should they just ‘get on with life’ too?
What about those left with long term covid? Do they just 'get on with it' too? I have long covid, not as debilitating as it is for those who had covid before the vaccinations but it affects everyday life. I am out of breath easily, something like doing the dishes or hoovering leaves me near gasping for air.Not sure what that dedication was for! Maybe the opening of that airport? Or maybe the MD-11 jet service? Not sure
But I felt this response was rather insensitive. What about the people that lost loved ones to coronavirus? Should they just ‘get on with life’ too?
COVID left my grandmother heart really weak and she sadly passed away because of that, not because of COVID but because of the secondary effects that COVID tends to left behind on some people, Louise is really ignorant about stuff but sometimes she really takes the cake.Not sure what that dedication was for! Maybe the opening of that airport? Or maybe the MD-11 jet service? Not sure
But I felt this response was rather insensitive. What about the people that lost loved ones to coronavirus? Should they just ‘get on with life’ too?
Sorry for your loss. This is exactly what I mean about being insensitive to others and what Covid has done to people's lives. She swans about calling it a childish name like its something cute. Lady Louise is just thankful she can swan off to Center Parcs and Disney whenever she feels like it now because there are no more restrictions. Oh and she doesn't have to wash her own hair anymore because god forbid she has to do something for herself.COVID left my grandmother heart really weak and she sadly passed away because of that, not because of COVID but because of the secondary effects that COVID tends to left behind on some people, Louise is really ignorant about stuff but sometimes she really takes the cake.
I agree - I have a few friends who worked in hospitals all through it and they very much are off the mindset that we just need to move on and put it behind us. I don’t see the point in dwelling on it. Someone asked Louise a question about how she felt covid wise and she answered, she did nothing wrong by saying how she felt and if you’re comfortable flying and going away absolutely go for it. If you’re not don’t.I have to say, as someone who worked throughout covid in a busy hospital, couldn't go to my best friends funeral due to restrictions, had a wedding postponed 3 times and just generally had an awful time (as we all did), I really don't mind people moving on. The 'pammy d' chat is in bad taste and annoying but in terms of getting on with your life, that's absolutely what I'm doing and covid rarely passes my mind now. We no longer wear masks in our hospital and I've been living as I did pre covid despite being pregnant so I don't have anything negative to say about people just moving on and trying to put that time behind them.
I feel like all I do is defend her but I’ve seen countless YouTubers say they can appreciate Galaxy’s Edge knowing nothing about Star Wars because it’s an immersive incredibly detailed land plus the rides are new and have all the bells and whistles. I’m going later in the year and I’m not into Star Wars at all but I’m really keen to see the land, take photos, do the rides explore etc just based on the fact it’s supposed to be phenomenal.When she does a post about going to Galaxy’s Edge having admitted she knows nothing about Star Wars
She was clearly feeling mum guilt — however, Darcy WAS on holiday already. Why shouldn’t they be able to take Pearl away too? Darcy has had Disney trips without Pearl. Also Darcy is still a child and can enjoy the holiday that she is on without considering the fact that she could have been in Disney. Pearl said herself that Darcy was on a beach holiday. And children value holidays fairly equally — especially when they have so many of them. She knows that she will go to Disney in the near future, and had already been this year as recently as February.For some reason today she keeps coming up on tiktok. I had completely ignored her over covid because shes totally stuck up and i cant bare it. However... i feel as if shes even worse now!
Someone asked her why darcy wasnt at disney, fair enough shes away with her dad, and disney was a 'work thing' but i cannot imagine my mother going away without me to disney... regardless how mature she thinks darcy is, shes a little girl at a difficult age and it can be hard to understand complex adult situations like separated parents, dynamics with half siblings and their mother/father relationship.
The way she tried to excuse it just reminded me of how stuck up and holier than thou she is. Surely she has a SHRED of mum guilt!!
And now another tiktok about how the above TT has sooooo many views, apparently its all the old sprinkle of glitter lot... give me strength
As an adult, yep that sounds like a reasonable thing to do. Darcy isnt being left out to spite her. But as a young child I think it would be incredibly difficult to get your head around. Its a really complex situation to have multiple fathers in the picture and i think she navigates it terribly, probably due to her own experiences of her own trauma and terrible parenting.She was clearly feeling mum guilt — however, Darcy WAS on holiday already. Why shouldn’t they be able to take Pearl away too? Darcy has had Disney trips without Pearl. Also Darcy is still a child and can enjoy the holiday that she is on without considering the fact that she could have been in Disney. Pearl said herself that Darcy was on a beach holiday. And children value holidays fairly equally — especially when they have so many of them. She knows that she will go to Disney in the near future, and had already been this year as recently as February.
If this was any other family and one child had been chosen for an experience over another then yeah I get the drama and the comments about this, but this was a gifted trip on set dates?
Of all the things Louise has done I really don’t think this is inherently bad. Should she have turned down the trip? I think it’s nice for her to go away with Pearl and Liam for some Pearl time.
Tbf what she meant to do not take Pearl because Darcy is on holiday with her dad? If she can take Darcy on her own then it should be the same for Pearl and Louise probably would of taken Darcy if Darcy wasn’t with her dad anyway. I think it’s fine she went with just Liam and Pearl, that’s what you have to do when you co-parent otherwise wouldn’t be fair on Pearl to miss out just because Darcy isn’t thereAs an adult, yep that sounds like a reasonable thing to do. Darcy isnt being left out to spite her. But as a young child I think it would be incredibly difficult to get your head around. Its a really complex situation to have multiple fathers in the picture and i think she navigates it terribly, probably due to her own experiences of her own trauma and terrible parenting.
exactly this! it might be different if Louise never did anything just with Darcy, but Pearl is regularly left at home with Liam while Darcy spends time alone with Louise - even to the point where they have been on holidays together without Pearl, including to Disney - so why shouldn't Pearl have the same experience with her mother? it's not even as though Louise specifically went out of her and booked a holiday which excluded Darcy - as she did when she went on holiday with Darcy and left Pearl behind - it was gifted for specific dates, and totally coincidental that Darcy was going to be away on holiday with her dad. if she had simply been spending time with Matt at home, I'm sure they would have altered custody so that Darcy could go on the Disney holiday - but she was already going on holiday herself, so she was hardly missing out. and it's not like it was a magical once-in-a-lifetime trip, as they all go to Disney fairly regularly.Tbf what she meant to do not take Pearl because Darcy is on holiday with her dad? If she can take Darcy on her own then it should be the same for Pearl and Louise probably would of taken Darcy if Darcy wasn’t with her dad anyway. I think it’s fine she went with just Liam and Pearl, that’s what you have to do when you co-parent otherwise wouldn’t be fair on Pearl to miss out just because Darcy isn’t there
Sorry i seem to be on rave page. My mistake.exactly this! it might be different if Louise never did anything just with Darcy, but Pearl is regularly left at home with Liam while Darcy spends time alone with Louise - even to the point where they have been on holidays together without Pearl, including to Disney - so why shouldn't Pearl have the same experience with her mother? it's not even as though Louise specifically went out of her and booked a holiday which excluded Darcy - as she did when she went on holiday with Darcy and left Pearl behind - it was gifted for specific dates, and totally coincidental that Darcy was going to be away on holiday with her dad. if she had simply been spending time with Matt at home, I'm sure they would have altered custody so that Darcy could go on the Disney holiday - but she was already going on holiday herself, so she was hardly missing out. and it's not like it was a magical once-in-a-lifetime trip, as they all go to Disney fairly regularly.
and from Pearl's perspective, she must be aware that Darcy goes on holiday more regularly, as she has separate holidays with both her mum and her dad, whereas Pearl doesn't go on. individual holidays with her own dad - which is entirely understandable, but not necessarily in the kind of a young child, who will simply see it as her big sister going on holiday without her, while Louise never books holidays/activities/days out - unless they're gifted - when Darcy is with Matt, because she doesn't want her to feel left out. i can see the situation from the perspective of Louise, Darcy and Pearl, but ultimately, as. a result of the situation, Darcy is the one who has more holidays and day trips etc - so it's not fair for Pearl to miss out on a holiday she'll love just to sit at home because Darcy is having fun on holiday!