my first long-term relationship was 5 years and I came off the pill for the last 18 months of it, in order to boost my sex drive.. don’t really see a problem with using condoms with someone you’ve been with for so long. The pull out method is NOT EFFECTIVEShe has said before she isn’t on the pill and uses condoms instead, but I find that quite strange for someone that age and in long term relationships, anyone else? Like her and Matt were married but still using condoms idk seems like a lot of effort