It really seems as if the only thing that ever stuck with her was what became her life list: find future husband as early as possible, live with him, buy a flat, get married, have a baby, buy a house, possibly have another baby or two. And somehow she thinks she's being unconventional, though I'm starting to think that she doesnt know what that word actually means. I remember her going on and on about how she didn't want a traditional wedding because she'd be an unconventional bride (whatever). Absolutely nothing about her wedding was anything out of the ordinary but she was convinced it had never been done like that. I have to ask again, HOW can you be this dumb??
Also, how old is Grey now? Is she not too young to play in that soft play area for hours and not get bored? I feel like the younger kids are, the less they're inclined to actually do this type of activity for a longer period of time.