Lilandlife #5 “Am I the problem?” Yes, yes you are.

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Mummyto2girls_19

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Catlady1 said:
My daughter used to say she wanted to go into care like Tracey Beaker because it looked like more fun than living with us!! She is now grown up and of course she knows now that in reality that is not true!! They are stories Lil. It’s your job as their parent to instill resilience and confidence in your daughters. Shouting at them all the time letting them see you spending days crying is not doing that. Adult life is hard. You can’t lurch from one crisis to the next. Believe me it messes other people up.
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oh I thought it was only my 9 year old that wants to go into care after reading & watching the fun Tracey Beaker has 🙈 I explain to her that children in care aren’t always happy & have often had sad experiences to lead them there. Tracey makes up stories about her mum being famous & amazing because she wants a family just like you. I actually find her books to be a good talking points & away to open discussions about all kinds of things. I also explain they were written when I was young & not everything is as we see it now.
But yeah it’s all doom & gloom for our Lil
 
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Put my heart and soul into that suggestion... I'll allow it as this comment is gold.
 
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Nosymum

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Catlady1 said:
Doesn’t she have pet health insurance. Responsible pet owners do don’t they? The amount she spends on beauty treatments she could afford it. Beauty treatments that do not make her look any different??
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Yes they do! It’s stupid not too unless you have plenty of money available immediately should it be needed or like my parents dog the pet is so old and everything is excluded anyway! That still hasn’t stopped my parents spending thousands when needed for other things he was excluded for and now we wouldn’t put him through any surgery anyway. It’s just silly and she’d think nothing of spending that on a facial or fillers!
 
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Leftpeg9

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Doyouknowwhatimean said:
Perplexed to how they have built a very swanky outhouse and are now planning to build a two story wraparound ext when their house cost 3/4 of a million. Is being an influencer still that lucrative??!??
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Sure its easy enough when your man owns his own company and will have various trade accounts and the staff to do the work without it costing the same as us mere mortals

Ive said on here previously I remember asking her a rough price guide when they did the kitchen extension in the last house (as I was planning to do similar, but alas i'm not an influencer with a tradesman hubby and move at the pace of normal people!) just as a guide and she was cagey as fuck with me
 
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Catlady1 said:
That outfit with the lips is horrible. The skirt is too short and too tight. I mean wear what you want but surely you’d see her fandango if she even moved. She has abysmal taste in clothes.
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It seems to be the new influencer thing, flashing your gash to all in sundry
 
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