lilandlife #4 Free holidays, free kids shoes, what DOES moaning lil actually pay for?

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Zero effort gone into that world book day costume dear oh dear
Zero effort and of course the book had to be “girls can do anything” she’s obsessed with this and things about mental health. I know these things are extremely important, but I think the way she obsesses over them will have the opposite affect. Isla is 6, I don’t believe she chose that book unless she’s had it rammed down her throat.
 
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When you consider the effort that goes into all her food posts and a paid ad the lack of effort on WBD is staggering. She is a horrendously lazy parent.
 
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When you consider the effort that goes into all her food posts and a paid ad the lack of effort on WBD is staggering. She is a horrendously lazy parent.
To be fair to Lil (& not defending her), some schools are just asking to bring in a book & none uniform day to save parents having to buy outfits etc - cozzie livs & all that
 
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Yeah my sons school have just asked to bring a book that they like and will be doing activities based around books throughout the day, no costumes at all. Cost of living crisis and all that.
 
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To be fair to Lil (& not defending her), some schools are just asking to bring in a book & none uniform day to save parents having to buy outfits etc - cozzie livs & all that
Fair enough, every school round my way did it but that makes sense.
 
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I don't think she is in a very good place at the moment, I wonder have they managed to sell the house yet... first world problems I suppose, but it is a bit tit that the sale fell through.
 
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I don't think she is in a very good place at the moment, I wonder have they managed to sell the house yet... first world problems I suppose, but it is a bit tit that the sale fell through.
House is still up for Sale. I suspect they will have to drop the price to sell it now. There's lots for sale locally that are bigger or in a better location
 
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I don't think she is in a very good place at the moment, I wonder have they managed to sell the house yet... first world problems I suppose, but it is a bit tit that the sale fell through.
Oh my gosh, so what though. And I have a right to say this. My house sale fell through last year while my little boy was in hospital. I was still nowhere near as moany as her. She is awful and properly ungrateful for every nice thing she has.
 
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Isn't her eldest like 9? Why does act like she's 16 and on her way out the nest already
 
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My daughter is 9 & still playing with dolls & Barbies and acts or looks nothing like Abs in fact none of her class group do. Maybe it's a culture thing, 9 year olds in London are like teenagers 🤷‍♀️
 
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My daughter is 9 & still playing with dolls & Barbies and acts or looks nothing like Abs in fact none of her class group do. Maybe it's a culture thing, 9 year olds in London are like teenagers 🤷‍♀️
She’s does dancing doesn’t she? My friends little girl does Cheer & she’s only 10 but she absolutely idolises the older girls in her troupe & seems to have “grown up” much more than other kids her age (although the other girls her age in the troupe are the same) I think it’s their surroundings, socialising etc that has an effect.

Gonna force my girls to do football & keep them babies for as long as I can !!
 
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The way her eldest daughter walks around with an iPhone in her hand, at age what 9 or 10? - makes me very sad.
 
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I still don’t get how she lives in Hainault/ilford and keeps going to that totally unremarkable caff near where I live. She has to get in the car and drive there. There’s caffs like that near her.

i always thought she was more local to me
 
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The fact that she feels her “day in a life” day is a busy day tells you everything you need to know about her life. Out for 2 meals, swimming with the youngest and an evening of no kids. And yet she STILL moans!
 
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I think she was just scrambling to post content as she had posted she had met with her manager that day. She isn't posting hardly at all anymore.
 
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Is she depressed? I've had to unfollow, she draining all the energy out of me
Yes I think she is. Very. And it is very tedious at times watching her posts that just feel like endless complaining 😖 when in fact she is deeply unhappy with her life at the moment and really needs some better medication and better therapeutic support. It does feel at times like her relationship with K is on very shaky ground. I do wonder if it will survive the next house move/reno... I think she also struggles with unhappiness regarding her looks, weight etc. She also seems a lot worse recently, so I would question how helpful whatever current coach/therapist things she's been doing actually is in reality.... she can't blame it all on the house sale falling through, crap and all as it is that it happened.

On another note, I really dislike the way the children are being constantly exploited for content and without their permission.. On one of her stories over the weekend, she was filming A who you could see clearly mouthing to her 'stop filming me!', and even little H you can see getting fed up of it at times.

It's all a bit sad really. But you know what, life is tough for most people at the moment and there are people in far worse positions than her. She has a lovely home, three healthy children, extended family and friends nearby. She just needs to get off her phone and insta, focus on her family and getting herself well again. There is no way she should be heading for a house move/ reno project the way she is at the moment, it just won't end well...
 
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