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7upcoke

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Putting your children on social media when you’re a small family with a private social media account is one thing. Putting your children on social media when they’re not at an age to have the opportunity to disagree with their parents posting bath-time and other sensitive photos on social media is another thing. Making money from posting sensitive private information about your your child /children is a new level of low.

When they get older and especially start secondary school privacy becomes more of a concern. Kids are cruel, we all wish they weren’t but they are. They’re all trying to find their place in the world, ideally in private. Her kids will start to feel embarressed by the content she post about them, especially when it comes to early childhood anecdotes, funny photos, and updates on developmental and behavioral challenges. It can become a breeding ground for bullying.

It’s difficult, if not impossible, to control information once it’s posted online. You can’t prevent anyone from taking a screenshot of your post and disseminating it beyond your reach. Your deleted posts, while apparently gone from your social media profile, may still live on in Internet archive websites and on the social media servers themselves. This thread will be read by them at some point in their lives. With that in mind, she should consider how her photos and stories may impact her children when they're much older, even an adult. Job interviews etc and the photos could get into the wrong hands, with complete strangers armed with knowing everything about you.

Sadly it’s been known for Photos and videos of children shared by their parents on social media sometimes turn up on disturbing websites and forums, some of them dedicated to child pornography. Extreme as it may sounds, it happens and This alone should make you STOP! Posts with information like location tags and landmarks give strangers as well as known aggressors the ability to locate a child and other family members.
 
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VintageC

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Press trip!!!! 😂😂😂 god she is such a muppet!! Poor kids, they don’t get 5 minutes to just ‘be’ at the moment do they? Carted here there and everywhere for the sake of her mediocre instagram that will NEVER GROW! 🙄
 
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BethanyGilbert

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I only know of this girl from Tattle. But it pisses me off that she keeps talking about school negatively. Her son clearly has some delays and her attitude coupled with these are going to make him hate school.
Also why does she keep calling her daughter Sassy pants. It’s seems a lot of instamums want their children to have a poor attitude and be rude!
 
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liarliarliar

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Silent lurker here but good god I literally cannot stand this woman. I unfollowed her too but still read here so had a snoop on her insta this morning. I actually can't believe her post about Olive, what a big pile of shit. She literally exaggerates everything and it doesn't add up.

Also out for a run. Jumping on the instagram bandwagon of couch to 5k. No point telling us Ainsley love 'be-cusss' you'll only do it twice, rejoin slimming world for a week and then go back to eating a whole tub of ice cream to yourself in one sitting. Bore off
 
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Downtoearth

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Press for what publishing house...? 😑

There are a few rules in life that I generally stick by and so far they’ve been helpful.

1. Those who speak about money/what they have, generally don’t have as much as they’d like you to think.

2. Those who say they are very smart, very intelligent- generally aren’t.

Those rules are simple, you don’t need to say what you have or who are because it usually comes across in the way you are!

For arguments sake and the purpose of this post. I am a highly intelligent (by societies standard) in regards to academia (I have two degrees and a PhD) - although you’ll never catch me saying I’m smart or intelligent.
I also come from a family who has money and I NEVER talk about money, I never post about it I never elude to it...

I don’t understand why this Instagram culture is about talking about what you have etc everyone knows it’s fake and the reason it’s fake is because everyone deep down knows, if you have it, you don’t talk about it.

She is the cliché of talking about things to make herself seem more successful than she is.
DAMN STRAIGHT.

I also have 2 degrees. From relatively humble beginnings we are now a family with kids in private school, land/horses, nice "prestige" cars etc.

Guess what never gets shown on my own IG?!

You can't buy class, but judging by our Ainsleys background, she's going to try if it kills her 😂
 
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targaryen

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"Look at home through a different lens" 😂
Bit of a difference between matlock bath and alvaston that's 40 mins away.

She's constantly talking about "derbyshire" and shows the nice countryside claiming it's all home, but she lives in Derby centre, visits the same castle down the road constantly and only goes to Cornwall or gifted trips. Its obvious shes barely knows of any places and only has a sudden obsession with it all for her paid for trip.
 
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Mama22

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I completely disagree with the ‘it’s scummy to ‘attack pea’ rubbish. She is judgemental and rude about other forms of parenting and if a terrible tragedy hadn’t happened to her she would get no engagement. And I can say so as I am in that precise same position as her and I make the most of every single second of my living daughter, I don’t parade her like a performing monkey for all to gawp at
 
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Trueb

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Anyone else think she’s doing the extra weight loss account to just get more gifts/free items?

I work out a lot and I’ve gone from a (somewhat healthy) size 12 to a size 8 - this wasn’t really done through dieting as my diet was already somewhat ok. I just work out a lot.... but.... I don’t post on social media about it.

It’s back to the comment I made a few weeks ago. Those who have a lot or succeed, don’t feel the need to shout about it on social media constantly.

She shouldn’t be losing the weight for social media, she should be doing it to lower her health risks, live a longer life and set a good example for her children (who by the way, shouldn’t even have the tv on during meal times, let alone be watching it... she talks about gentle parenting, I think she has it confused with lazy parenting)

If everything she does is to get some sort of acknowledgement and recognition from strangers on the internet... it’s such a sad life.

Lose the weight because it’s the right thing for herself and her family, do it quietly and let the weight loss speak for itself over time - without documenting every, meal, drink, walk, sh*t she takes.
 
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Dreamer02

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She’s now posted the link to the grid post on the meet and market page stories, so utterly crass, it beggars belief!
This has made me so so angry. I really hope that little Olive is alright, and my heart does break for Ainsley as I would hate for my baby to be ill. But WHY ON EARTH has she thought it a good idea to take a picture and then post a link on your business page! 😡😡😡😡😡 and WHY OH WHY! Did she ring 111 before 999?!? Lifeless and she rings 111! IF YOUR CHILD IS LIFELESS ITS A FUCKING EMERGENCY!

Sorry. This has got me really frustrated. I can’t bare to see children being used like this. Especially when they are poorly :(
 
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yellowmellow

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Also is it just me that doesn’t believe all this bullshit about the kids being so excited for Cornwall?? I could have believe Oakley being excited but I don’t believe he burst into them first thing on a morning and started telling them how many sleeps til they go, the poor boy can barely string a sentence together at the best of times! And does Olive girl (🤢) really have any concept of it at all?
 
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c93

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Do you reckon her husband has finally cracked a smile because there’s no signal so for once she has to participate in real life? 😂
 
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Missoula18

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Looks like shes deleted all the comments, i cant see them now, only her responses. Shame, as the poster raised some good points. Got several likes from others too.
I saw one of the comments, it was an educated and very valid comment. I can't believe the immaturity of her reply. "I'm her mum so I can do as I please". Blood sugar issues are rarely a one-off thing especially in somebody so young. It is a massive warning sign about her diet. If she's not careful she is setting the poor girl up for a lifetime of issues.
 
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liarliarliar

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#ihavethisthingwithpeonies #ihavethisthingwithfloors No you don’t Ainsley who are you kidding, you’ve just seen all the other influencers taking similar photos
 
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Islander

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I can’t! All her responses to comments saying that her mummy instincts kicked in. Mamma’s intuition. As a Mother you just know what to do!!! Really? Did they? Did they guide to to call a non-emergency number during, what you have made sound like, this a life or death situation?

There’s absolutely no way Olive was lifeless. If that were the case she would have dialled 999. I hate to say it but I also agree that she’s exaggerated the whole scenario for engagement. Absolutely awful. Either that or she’s made a typo. I just cannot accept that she called 111 at the sight of her lifeless daughter.

A 10 year old would have called 999 at the sight of a lifeless 2 year old. It’s basic common sense. No? In fact, my friend fainted for the first time last month, and was unresponsive, and her boyfriend called an ambulance. She’s 30!!
 
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Cubalibra

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In all fairness Ainsley used her ‘platform’ to save a child's life. Thats where these influencers can be powerful and useful

She didn’t save the child’s life. Medicine and science did. She raised money so the parents could pay their bills or something like that? Saying that she saved the child’s life with a raffle is hilarious.
 
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yellowmellow

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I also love Cornwall and we go most years but my god she’s acts like it’s some tropical paradise that no one else has discovered yet! Eden Project, they went last year and probably the year before, why not try somewhere new? She’s been 3 years running (it’s tradition now you know 🤣) and all they do is go to the same places and do the same things! I’ve been with my fiancé 6 years this year and we’ve been to Cornwall together 6 times and we hardly ever go to the same places and do the same things! We’re going again next month and I’ve already started planning to go to all new places while we are there’s so much more to Cornwall than St Ives, the Eden project and Mousehole 🙄 and all she likes St Ives and Mousehole for is the photo ops for the gram! St Ives is lovely but aside from the beach and shops there’s nothing else there?
 
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She has 32.6k followers and that video has been liked by 88 people and has 1 comment🤔
1600 views out of 32,600 people too. Her following is very very dodgy!

Also hilarious how she says 'New video, new website, blog published, enjoy!' like everyone will be falling over themselves to watch her dull content and look at her new dull website all about her dull markets.
 
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So I’m a little confused, she is taking some time out coz her nana is sick or she doesn’t know what to post as she is jumping on the online hate bandwagon? What is it??
 
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