Life With Oaks & Olive #2 Everything I am, I am just for the ‘gram

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Unfollowed but went to see if she had put anything else on about Olive... Oh little sass pot is back posing for the gram this morning like nothing ever happened... Give her a bloody day off will ya Ainsley... No wonder she was poorly, probably exhaustion from being paraded in front of the camera at every opportunity!
You think she’d take a day away from insta and just spend it with her daughter who was apparently lifeless yesterday 🙄
 
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This woman. A picture of your sick child in hospital for Instagram. Really?? She can raise awareness without the image, though like many have said previously how can you even think of taking pictures at a time when your child is blue lighted to hospital!.. I had a friend who used to work in healthcare and he came across quite a few people like this.. The worst was a mum asking if she could film her child being put to sleep for urgent surgery so she could send it to the family. I mean WTF!?
 
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Putting your children on social media when you’re a small family with a private social media account is one thing. Putting your children on social media when they’re not at an age to have the opportunity to disagree with their parents posting bath-time and other sensitive photos on social media is another thing. Making money from posting sensitive private information about your your child /children is a new level of low.

When they get older and especially start secondary school privacy becomes more of a concern. Kids are cruel, we all wish they weren’t but they are. They’re all trying to find their place in the world, ideally in private. Her kids will start to feel embarressed by the content she post about them, especially when it comes to early childhood anecdotes, funny photos, and updates on developmental and behavioral challenges. It can become a breeding ground for bullying.

It’s difficult, if not impossible, to control information once it’s posted online. You can’t prevent anyone from taking a screenshot of your post and disseminating it beyond your reach. Your deleted posts, while apparently gone from your social media profile, may still live on in Internet archive websites and on the social media servers themselves. This thread will be read by them at some point in their lives. With that in mind, she should consider how her photos and stories may impact her children when they're much older, even an adult. Job interviews etc and the photos could get into the wrong hands, with complete strangers armed with knowing everything about you.

Sadly it’s been known for Photos and videos of children shared by their parents on social media sometimes turn up on disturbing websites and forums, some of them dedicated to child pornography. Extreme as it may sounds, it happens and This alone should make you STOP! Posts with information like location tags and landmarks give strangers as well as known aggressors the ability to locate a child and other family members.
100 times yes to this! Exactly!!!
 
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Putting your children on social media when you’re a small family with a private social media account is one thing. Putting your children on social media when they’re not at an age to have the opportunity to disagree with their parents posting bath-time and other sensitive photos on social media is another thing. Making money from posting sensitive private information about your your child /children is a new level of low.

When they get older and especially start secondary school privacy becomes more of a concern. Kids are cruel, we all wish they weren’t but they are. They’re all trying to find their place in the world, ideally in private. Her kids will start to feel embarressed by the content she post about them, especially when it comes to early childhood anecdotes, funny photos, and updates on developmental and behavioral challenges. It can become a breeding ground for bullying.

It’s difficult, if not impossible, to control information once it’s posted online. You can’t prevent anyone from taking a screenshot of your post and disseminating it beyond your reach. Your deleted posts, while apparently gone from your social media profile, may still live on in Internet archive websites and on the social media servers themselves. This thread will be read by them at some point in their lives. With that in mind, she should consider how her photos and stories may impact her children when they're much older, even an adult. Job interviews etc and the photos could get into the wrong hands, with complete strangers armed with knowing everything about you.

Sadly it’s been known for Photos and videos of children shared by their parents on social media sometimes turn up on disturbing websites and forums, some of them dedicated to child pornography. Extreme as it may sounds, it happens and This alone should make you STOP! Posts with information like location tags and landmarks give strangers as well as known aggressors the ability to locate a child and other family members.
This 🙌🏼👏🏼
Wake up and smell the bleeping roses! 🤦🏼‍♀️
 
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You think she’d take a day away from insta and just spend it with her daughter who was apparently lifeless yesterday 🙄
I'm glad I'm not the only one who thought this!!?? If my child or a family member was having a hypoglycaemic attack... The literal last thing I would think to do is think to get my phone out and take a pic!!

Also.... why in the hell did she call 111 and not 999 if the girl was indeed as lifeless as she made her out to be? 111 is a non-emergency but urgent number, where they spend ages asking you your phone number and personal details before asking what the problem is. Is she just a bit thick or something?!
 
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You are all absolutely right.

And the harrowing fact that there are sick paedophiles out there that will manipulate a perfectly innocent image and upload it onto a child pornography site, it just one of the many reasons that I will never have a public account. Ok.. I post images of my children to my private account, but even then I’m always really careful to make sure the picture is respectful. Most days I wonder whether I should stop posting all together. It’s an issue we should all consider. Never in my life would I share my kids’ pictures to thousands of followers and god knows how many weird lurkers out there. It’s not ethical.

Hey, at least she’s better!
 
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Is Oakley starting school in September? Only she hasn’t mentioned it?
At first I didn’t know what she was talking about as he is the first child to have ever started school so it was a knew concept to me. Thank god she’s sharing this with us! Xxx
 
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At first I didn’t know what she was talking about as he is the first child to have ever started school so it was a knew concept to me. Thank god she’s sharing this with us! Xxx
Imagine what she will be like in September!! I know he's her first, I know its exciting/emotional when they go to school, but STOP CONSTANTLY REPEATING YOURSELF!! She literally says the same bloody thing over and over again (not just about this). She is unbelievably boring and at the same time incredibly irritating.
 
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Countdown to September , this woman is a drain !

The last thing I would want/do after being poorly is have a camera shoved in my face for a set up fake photo. This is the problem of basing an Instagram page/following all about your children. They have no say . It's not fair . They should be allowed to rest when poorly . Play when and how they want . Wear what they want. Be free . Be young . Remain innocent and unaware of Instagram until they are older .
 
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Imagine what she will be like in September!! I know he's her first, I know its exciting/emotional when they go to school, but STOP CONSTANTLY REPEATING YOURSELF!! She literally says the same bloody thing over and over again (not just about this). She is unbelievably boring and at the same time incredibly irritating.
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She said something about stripping off Olives clothing, how much did she have on FFS, it’s Summer! No wonder she was sweating
 
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Sorry to go back it, but it really bothered me. I definitely think she was exaggerating for engagement. Why would she’s be fully dressed in the ambulance? Like Ainsley said (saint of a
Mother don’t you know) she only took half of her clothes off as didn’t want her to go into shock... by the time paramedics got her in the ambulance if she was still very poorly they would have stripped her down.
 
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Can we talk about the fact she said "I immediately searched for the thermometer" why the hell would you want to check your childs temperature when she is lying on the floor unresponsive, you first thought should be 999!!
 
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Can we talk about the fact she said "I immediately searched for the thermometer" why the hell would you want to check your childs temperature when she is lying on the floor unresponsive, you first thought should be 999!!
Yeah, I thought that. I'm sorry to say but I can only assume that Ainsley was massively over exaggerated things and that the little girl was not totally unresponsive. God knows. I do wonder how these kids would feel if they were actually old enough to give consent about their photos of the most personal moments being plastered all over Instagram.
 
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Also... Oakley starting school means he will be taught about consent and photos. I used to be a teacher and all be it my class were 8-9 year olds, but we had the police come in numerous times to talk to the children about their parents posting photos of them on social media and how dangerous it can be and that they can say no to it - the police also highlighted how important it was to not let their ‘mummie and daddies post photos of you in your school uniform on the internet because then lots of strangers will know where you go to school’

How is she going to handle Oakley coming home from school saying ‘I don’t want my photo taken’ OR ‘I don’t want you to show everyone that photo’

I wonder if she has considered teaching her children consent...? At all...?!
 
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Having read this thread and read her caption some more, I’ve decided most of what she’s said is complete nonsense. The fact she was wearing clothes in the ambulance, the fact she said she’d stripped her down when it’s summer, what was she wearing?! Her saying ‘but I didn’t take everything off, didn’t want her body to go into shock’ absolute rubbish. She probably only added that part in because she thought she’d get comments about not stripping down entirely. The caption of engagement dreams. Then she’s back to posting ‘sass pot’ the very next day.

Oh and the ‘Oaks’ going to school posts actually make me sad. I feel sorry for him considering he can just about say one or two words, and she’s not addressing it! Having two autistic children myself (not suggesting he’s autistic at all, I think he has learning difficulties which hasn’t been helped by her) I can’t understand why she hasn’t done something about it. Doctors! Speech therapy! He seems SO behind. I really do hope his school address the very evident issues and don’t heighten them.
 
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I can’t! All her responses to comments saying that her mummy instincts kicked in. Mamma’s intuition. As a Mother you just know what to do!!! Really? Did they? Did they guide to to call a non-emergency number during, what you have made sound like, this a life or death situation?

There’s absolutely no way Olive was lifeless. If that were the case she would have dialled 999. I hate to say it but I also agree that she’s exaggerated the whole scenario for engagement. Absolutely awful. Either that or she’s made a typo. I just cannot accept that she called 111 at the sight of her lifeless daughter.

A 10 year old would have called 999 at the sight of a lifeless 2 year old. It’s basic common sense. No? In fact, my friend fainted for the first time last month, and was unresponsive, and her boyfriend called an ambulance. She’s 30!!
 
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Having read this thread and read her caption some more, I’ve decided most of what she’s said is complete nonsense. The fact she was wearing clothes in the ambulance, the fact she said she’d stripped her down when it’s summer, what was she wearing?! Her saying ‘but I didn’t take everything off, didn’t want her body to go into shock’ absolute rubbish. She probably only added that part in because she thought she’d get comments about not stripping down entirely. The caption of engagement dreams. Then she’s back to posting ‘sass pot’ the very next day.

Oh and the ‘Oaks’ going to school posts actually make me sad. I feel sorry for him considering he can just about say one or two words, and she’s not addressing it! Having two autistic children myself (not suggesting he’s autistic at all, I think he has learning difficulties which hasn’t been helped by her) I can’t understand why she hasn’t done something about it. Doctors! Speech therapy! He seems SO behind. I really do hope his school address the very evident issues and don’t heighten them.
The kids clothed in the ambulance . Utter total bull. The girl seems clueless. Is this not the girl who arranged first aid courses . And you called 111. . Someone’s telling us rubbish. Complete utter rubbish .
I do hope your stupid market is a total flop planning it the week before most get paid . The girl is clueless. Pity the stall holders don’t wake up. .
 
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I seem to recall that she put photos of olive on insta when she was in hospital when she was tiny. I just don't understand why you would post a photo of your child at such a vulnerable moment. I've unfollowed, it's just too much bullshit for me
 
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