And we have come full circle. Allow the cycle to begin again 
Leila Stead #5 ding dong has lasted longer than the last thread, guess we can assume the rabbit is dead
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âHuge values misalignmentâ - oh no, maybe she found out he was vaccinated.And we have come full circle. Allow the cycle to begin again
Poor Ever
So after declaring that he was the perfect man, introducing your daughter who bonded with him and her âstepsisterâ sharing Motherâs Day, talking of moving in together, renting a space that he was tied to and was renovating for herâŚ.she now finds out there was a misalignment in values? Top tip for you LeiâŚ.maybe date without introducing him to your child, donât tie your life to someone via business decisions, donât agree to move in together without knowing what their values are. Like 6 months to a year???? See how they live, not just how they tell you they live. Also believe it or not, you donât need a man. Date and have fun but stop believing in the fairytale. It doesnât exist.
My aunt separated from my uncle about 30 years ago and as a single parent of a young girl she decided that her daughter was too precious and vulnerable to expose her to men coming in and out of her life. So she dated when her daughter was with her Dad but never introduced anyone into their home. She did it hard as a single mum and I always admired her for her selflessness. Not saying this has to be the case but she is a stark contrast to old Lei-need-a-man-to-survive.
My aunt separated from my uncle about 30 years ago and as a single parent of a young girl she decided that her daughter was too precious and vulnerable to expose her to men coming in and out of her life. So she dated when her daughter was with her Dad but never introduced anyone into their home. She did it hard as a single mum and I always admired her for her selflessness. Not saying this has to be the case but she is a stark contrast to old Lei-need-a-man-to-survive.
And furthermore - because no blocked tattler should miss out on Liesâs âwordsâ or âhumannessâ
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And in messages she never receivedâŚ.. Which is like things Ever never saidâŚ
honestly this chick has no clue.
honestly this chick has no clue.
she's a grifter and he's divorced with a very young child... what about this was misaligned?
Again, it's all about what SHE wants and what SHE deserves and what she shouldn't have to put up with... Is there anything this lazy, scheming bogan intends to bring "to the table"... or is this ALSO why she is still unhappily single at 36?
"I felt secure and sure that this one the one, and I was wrong"
How can you possibly feel secure and sure after a few weeks?!?!?! FFS Leila do some work on yourself! You have been sure and been wrong MULTIPLE times since Ever was born.
As with the poster above, I am a single parent and my children have only met 1 partner, after 7 months, and we are now 18 months in, and thinking about moving in together NEXT year. Not within weeks - the same as Kylie Camps who seems to have moved her current partner into her house after 6-7 months of dating. Its so bleeping irresponsible where there are children to consider. You simply cannot know how secure the relationship is after 6 months. I still spend regular time with my children without him around so they still have me to themselves so they feel safe.
Sophie Guidolin another example of this
How can you possibly feel secure and sure after a few weeks?!?!?! FFS Leila do some work on yourself! You have been sure and been wrong MULTIPLE times since Ever was born.
As with the poster above, I am a single parent and my children have only met 1 partner, after 7 months, and we are now 18 months in, and thinking about moving in together NEXT year. Not within weeks - the same as Kylie Camps who seems to have moved her current partner into her house after 6-7 months of dating. Its so bleeping irresponsible where there are children to consider. You simply cannot know how secure the relationship is after 6 months. I still spend regular time with my children without him around so they still have me to themselves so they feel safe.
Sophie Guidolin another example of this
This woman is so predictable that Iâm genuinely feeling sorry for her. She is coming across now slightly less arrogant which I think shows sheâs hopefully starting to grow up.
Lets see what has happened to her âspaceâ that she rented. Again itâs another lost opportunity for her in her very sad life.
Her daughter will grow up and hopefully break the cycle. One can hope anyway!
Lets see what has happened to her âspaceâ that she rented. Again itâs another lost opportunity for her in her very sad life.
Her daughter will grow up and hopefully break the cycle. One can hope anyway!
Aaaand hereâs the blame game. Sheâs making out that sheâs the one with âvaluesâ and heâs not. Good on Ding Dong for not bowing down to her every demand and kicking her to the curb.
She wonât tell us what actually happened, but she will write several word salad posts about herself. No one sent you that message Tarah, thatâs your own internal dialogue that youâre making up snarky replies to. YOU are the one thinking that 36 is âoldâ and scared youâll end up alone.
Youâll have to put Ever into therapy with the amount of tit you are putting her through Tarah. Stop putting your own daughter last.
She wonât tell us what actually happened, but she will write several word salad posts about herself. No one sent you that message Tarah, thatâs your own internal dialogue that youâre making up snarky replies to. YOU are the one thinking that 36 is âoldâ and scared youâll end up alone.
Youâll have to put Ever into therapy with the amount of tit you are putting her through Tarah. Stop putting your own daughter last.
Back to normal programming then , how many weeks did it last? Wondering who won the kitty.
Maybe Jesus got in the way. That Hillsong churchie crowd are insufferable. I've had to attend a few sessions for work and I had a general curiosity of it as I loathe Hillsong and the Houstons. I can honestly say I met the most misogynist and sexist males whilst there. They are all about 'men's rights' and that 'men die from DV too'. Oh and they cover up sexual abuse.
Sheâs getting defensive about her break up and implying that âsocietyâ and âpeopleâ arenât ok with her being single or with her going through a break up. Breakups happen, but YOU Leila were the one with all of the expectations, no one else. YOU talked about growing old together and dancing in the kitchen fixing all and having a âcompleteâ family after a few weeks. No one else did. Being open to love is great, but you also have to recognise that if you rush into things, there are consequences. Thatâs fine if youâre willing to make that mistake over and over, but when children are involved, you canât afford to be so careless.
Can Leila just step off her soap box? While she is berating the non existent person who wrote the non existent message does she realise that she is the one who used no judgement, who chose to overlook red flags
(like him being married TWICE and having a very very young child)? She chose to dive in headfirst with no thought of the impact on her child? She declared true love in the first few weeks? She impulsively signed a lease based on him being around to renovate it for her? Stop yelling at everyone and preaching about âstanding in your powerâ that you are 36 and a independent woman. At 36 you should not just know better but DO better. You are not an independent woman when you go to jelly whenever a man comes on the scene. You keep reverting to your âfeminineâ (submissive) and giving up your power. Stop yelling at everyone who could predict the shitfest and reflect on why you do this to yourself and to your child.Youâre doing gods work. Thank you
Thank you so much for sharing this!
I feel so much for Ever
Youâre a crappy mother Liela Stead, start thinking about your daughter for once in your goddamn life.
Whoâs got custody of the rabbit?
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Liela you are flawed not because of your relationship breakdowns but because of the same tit different relationship cycle that you never learn from. You find a guy and you are the relationship expert, flaunting how wonderful and better than everyone else you are because you have a man. The relationship breaks down because youâre a bleep. You do a dirty delete, then come on Insta playing the victim, preaching how strong you are and these men donât deserve you. The worst is you expose your daughter to it all, not caring about the impact of playing happy nuclear families with all these different men could have on her.
This
couldnât have said it any better. She just never learns and the cycle continues. Poor Ever 
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