Learning to drive.

[lozzapaloozza]

After 4 years I’ve decided I want to start lessons again and do my test. I was learning and took my test in 2017 but failed and never picked it back up after being so traumatized I was really good on the driving part but on my test the examiner was nasty. For example, I indicated to go left but meant to indicate right and she goes, “WHY are you doing that?”. It was the nerves, I also ended up stalling at a box junction and she was shouting at me to “hurry up”, “come on MOVE” and I couldn’t stop stalling. She was a horrible cow and it scarred me for life I’m thinking about learning automatic because the gears/pedals stress me out and my brain feels like it can’t do everything at once so think this would be the best option. How do I find the courage to just book lessons/my test?

 

[Mascaragirl]

After 4 years I’ve decided I want to start lessons again and do my test. I was learning and took my test in 2017 but failed and never picked it back up after being so traumatized I was really good on the driving part but on my test the examiner was nasty. For example, I indicated to go left but meant to indicate right and she goes, “WHY are you doing that?”. It was the nerves, I also ended up stalling at a box junction and she was shouting at me to “hurry up”, “come on MOVE” and I couldn’t stop stalling. She was a horrible cow and it scarred me for life I’m thinking about learning automatic because the gears/pedals stress me out and my brain feels like it can’t do everything at once so think this would be the best option. How do I find the courage to just book lessons/my test?

This is me, I started years ago when I was able to and left every lesson crying, with no confidence. I stopped the lessons. Now I feel ready to start again, I’m not sure how to do it, has anyone had any experience of intense courses? Also any tips on how to actually not be terrified because I’m constantly worried about doing something wrong, and the instructor shouting at me like my last one which just makes me panic 🥲

 

[Dramabyname]

This is me, I started years ago when I was able to and left every lesson crying, with no confidence. I stopped the lessons. Now I feel ready to start again, I’m not sure how to do it, has anyone had any experience of intense courses? Also any tips on how to actually not be terrified because I’m constantly worried about doing something wrong, and the instructor shouting at me like my last one which just makes me panic 🥲

I don’t have any personal experience of intense courses but my other half did it in 2 weeks and he loved it. He was absolutely knackered at the end of everyday he was driving as it was so much information but he’s glad he did it. He booked 2 weeks off work and went out driving with his instructor and then in his spare time he read books and watched YouTube videos. He was lucky that he could go out with his Dad as well so had lots of extra practise. He passed first time with no minors.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

It’s just trial and error with finding an instructor. Mine is so calm and we have a laugh. There’s no need to panic because you’ve got as much time as you need, start thinking ahead.

If I get a rude examiner that shouts at me or huffs and puffs on my test I’m pulling over and telling them to stfu.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

DVSA say new tests are released throughout the day on Mondays.

 

[Former_Antelopee]

I am looking for a car that is in a low insurance group and is 1.4L engine or less. I'm learning in a Vauxhall Corsa and they are quite good! Citreon C1/Peugeot 107 are the same car and are good first cars. As are Skoda Citigo/Seat Mii/VW Up! (all the same car). Mini's are expensive to insure and I think are a pain to repair? I'm sure someone will correct me if I'm wrong.

I’ve also heard minis are a pain/expensive to repair. My first car my parents gave me as they were getting a newer one, it was 15years old and lasted me a year. I knew it was going to fail it’s MOT in January but it wasn’t a dangerous issue and I could still drive it fine (it just wasn’t as economical) so I kept it until November (had MOT until December). Sold it to we buy any car for £450 with a months MOT left on it and bought a 14year old car from my dads friend for £500 which I’ve now had for a year and a half. I don’t know how much longer it’ll have so I’m looking at newer cars just now incase, I like the look of the Hyundai i10 I think I don’t know anything about cars though. I don’t really like my car that I have atm but it does the job and I’ll keep it until it breaks/isn’t worth fixing. I’m glad I bought cheap cars for my first cars as now I’m more confident so it wouldn’t bother me as much spending more on one.

 

[nightfeedz]

Yikes I finally have my first lesson with my new instructor tomorrow. So relieved as I have my test booked and was worrying I wouldn’t get up to standard again in time.

I cannot be bothered with getting anxious about it though! I want to stay calm. The nerves are the thing that make me struggle with driving so it’s a vicious cycle once it starts.

 

[under the ivy]

I passed my theory test today

I also have a mock test booked in for 4 weeks time! So proud of myself.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

I passed my theory test today

I also have a mock test booked in for 4 weeks time! So proud of myself.

Well done!

 

[Belulah]

I passed my theory test today

I also have a mock test booked in for 4 weeks time! So proud of myself.

Well done! That’s a big step in the right direction! Let us know how the mock goes! One thing I got pulled up in mine was not looking in my rear view mirror before changing speeds.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

I’ve been watching mock driving tests on YouTube You can never check your mirrors too much, that’s one thing a lot get minors for.

 

[Dramabyname]

I passed my theory test today

I also have a mock test booked in for 4 weeks time! So proud of myself.

Well done, amazing news

 

[Magee]

I passed my theory test today

I also have a mock test booked in for 4 weeks time! So proud of myself.

Was coming on the thread tonight to ask how it went! Congrats! One step closer

Think I’ll have a look at this YouTube channel, I find it way easier to see it and then replicate! Love a thread like this, full of useful info and supportive people xx

 

[under the ivy]

I’ve been looking at practical tests tonight and there’s absolutely nothing! That’s worrying. I’m going to keep checking and just pray I get in!

 

[LaurieLaurie]

I’ve been looking at practical tests tonight and there’s absolutely nothing! That’s worrying. I’m going to keep checking and just pray I get in!

I’m checking 10 times a day but I saw on the dvsa social media page that they release new dates throughout the day on Monday.

 

[Belulah]

I’ve seen a service where you can pay them to get you a cancellation. I’m not sure if it’s legit but might be worth looking into.

 

[LaurieLaurie]

I’ve seen a service where you can pay them to get you a cancellation. I’m not sure if it’s legit but might be worth looking into.

It’s just apps and notifications. Best to just keep checking

 

[under the ivy]

I’ve got a test booked! Isn’t until start of November but at least I’ve got one!

 

[nightfeedz]

Phew I had my first lesson back today. New instructor in an automatic car. It went really well, I’ve plenty to work on but a good start.

There’s not much chat out of this instructor but I think that’s maybe for the best as I’m easily distracted!

 

[LaurieLaurie]

Aww I’ve been checking all day and there’s still no tests in my area.