Lauryn, I work in mental health, I actually do mental health act assessments and section people. You are suffering from a delusional disorder, some points:
1) Kyle never was, and never will be yours! He is Annie’s!
2) Kyle will never be able to see your son, your toxic behaviour, passive aggression, bullying and humiliation of his 3 planned children and life partner ,Annie, have destroyed that. YOU are responsible for that! Not Annie, not Kyle
3) You entrapped him by lying and saying you were infertile, you reap what you sow!
4) you are a topic of discussion among mysocial worker friends in child protection, what you are doing now, is emotionally abusing your own child, Kyle and Annie’s 3 planned and consented to children, harassing and bullying a family!
Annie - you need to cut the head off the beast or she will never stop! Report her to child protection for emotional abuse of your children, then sue for slander, misinformation and harassment.
lastly, I cannot believe she thinks she canbe an agony aunt! Seek mental help Lauren, before social services come knocking and stop humiliating your son!