I do feel sorry for her really that she is so mixed up that she thinks her life is one we all aspire to. I’m a stay at home mum so I don’t have the money or the time to look like she does (we could all have abs like hers if we had Vaser) or have the things she does but I am so happy and content in my life.
My children are happy, secure and always safe. I have a mature relationship with my husband which is based on mutual care and respect. We might not have many material things for now (until my youngest is at school full time and I go back to work as an accountant) but what we do have is worth so much more. She puts so much emphasis on outward appearances (obviously being called a ‘fat old hag’ is a huge insult to her...it really isn’t to me!) and having THINGS and I wonder if she will ever realise what is truly important in life. She would absolutely hate living my life but I think it would make her happier.
I wonder what will happen to her when she starts to lose her looks? She is almost 31 now, in such a shallow environment she will soon be ‘past it’. Her identity is so wrapped up in how she looks and being desirable that I think she will really struggle mentally.
My children are happy, secure and always safe. I have a mature relationship with my husband which is based on mutual care and respect. We might not have many material things for now (until my youngest is at school full time and I go back to work as an accountant) but what we do have is worth so much more. She puts so much emphasis on outward appearances (obviously being called a ‘fat old hag’ is a huge insult to her...it really isn’t to me!) and having THINGS and I wonder if she will ever realise what is truly important in life. She would absolutely hate living my life but I think it would make her happier.
I wonder what will happen to her when she starts to lose her looks? She is almost 31 now, in such a shallow environment she will soon be ‘past it’. Her identity is so wrapped up in how she looks and being desirable that I think she will really struggle mentally.