R.e Larose and her potential issues. Having an autistic child myself I can see why some might suspect its a possibility but me personally I think something dark is going on behind the scenes. What that is I don't know but a baby with bags under her eyes? Who never smiles? Things that make you go hmmmmm.
Lauren Goodger #67 Papped, preened & raising awareness, of what, no clue just wanna be famous
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my child was a bleeping menace at Lasagnes age. An absolute bleeping feral menace. Would never settle, into everything, loud. He was late with all his milestones though; walking, speech, etc what I’m trying to say is kind of similar to above; they’re not quiet rocking in a corner or staring into space as babies/toddlers. I don’t think it would ever enter into bygs Neanderthal brain that Larose needs anything more than feeding
could the dark circles be due to anything dietary?Or asthma?
my child was a bleeping menace at Lasagnes age. An absolute bleeping feral menace. Would never settle, into everything, loud. He was late with all his milestones though; walking, speech, etc what I’m trying to say is kind of similar to above; they’re not quiet rocking in a corner or staring into space as babies/toddlers. I don’t think it would ever enter into bygs Neanderthal brain that Larose needs anything more than feedingcould the dark circles be due to anything dietary?Or asthma?
As a mother of two very active babies and toddlers, I wouldn’t say her sitting passively is a sign of boredom. Mine are very loud and whingey when they’re bored. My only (sad) thought is that she’s one of those babies who’ve learnt not to cry because it doesn’t make any difference to her life if she does….
Autism parent 
My child was and still is like a ping pong ball bouncing around a room. Developemental wise he was good until around 14/15 months old and babbling just suddenly stopped. No more interaction etc but still wild! The one thing to remember with it, is that no two children are ever the same. Things show at different ages and traits, while they can be similar, also vary massively. I only pop on this thread for a quick read, once in a while, but I’d say if she is, her Mothers to dense to understand any of it and her HV will be the one to pick up on it. God forbid she actually has autism and Lauren becomes another Christine McGuiness! Just what any parent coping with autistic children needs is another fame hungry, vapid, brain dead wannabe in our corner. Anyone who wants to educate themselves on it please don’t use the soon to be ex-wife of a tv presenter! She definitely doesn’t speak for me or present a truthful documentation of what it’s like to parent my child.
My child was and still is like a ping pong ball bouncing around a room. Developemental wise he was good until around 14/15 months old and babbling just suddenly stopped. No more interaction etc but still wild! The one thing to remember with it, is that no two children are ever the same. Things show at different ages and traits, while they can be similar, also vary massively. I only pop on this thread for a quick read, once in a while, but I’d say if she is, her Mothers to dense to understand any of it and her HV will be the one to pick up on it. God forbid she actually has autism and Lauren becomes another Christine McGuiness! Just what any parent coping with autistic children needs is another fame hungry, vapid, brain dead wannabe in our corner. Anyone who wants to educate themselves on it please don’t use the soon to be ex-wife of a tv presenter! She definitely doesn’t speak for me or present a truthful documentation of what it’s like to parent my child.
The poor child needs help but I agree we shouldn’t get into labelling. Someone posted late on the last thread she’s gone right downhill since she was admitted to hospital & I think this is spot on. The problem is, her useless mother is so concerned with not vaccinating her that she will avoid any regular healthcare checks! She won’t take her for her 1 year check up (if that’s still a thing) as she won’t want to be challenged on the vax situation. I’m sure she knows the child is overweight so won’t want to explain her diet. She won’t put her in nursery as this would mean her getting out of bed & leaving the house before noon (if she ever gets out of bed that is) So it’s going to be really hard for professionals to get access to her. But there is something wrong 100%. She’s overweight, not very mobile, sickly looking with bags & dark circles under her eyes. She’s vacant, unhappy & unresponsive & it’s really heartbreaking: she may need blood tests to diagnose something (my toddler was anaemic which was sorted quickly but only because I sought advice when he was more tired than usual!) but but that won’t happen while her mother hides her crappy parenting away by keeping her locked up.
She's got Loz legs, bless herOoh I got a title! Thank you scrunchies; honoured.
That dinner actually looks like a cow pat.
I feel so desperately sorry for that child. She’s been so understimilated I’m guessing,not encouraged to be inquisitive or handle books/toys. Maybe there’s some sensory or cognitive processing issues who knows but the parenting leaves a lot to be desired thus far- but she definitely it more reactive and looks happier and engaged when with her dad.
The thighs on her aren’t normal; it’s like she has teeny feet on the end lipodema legs
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I feel a bit uncomfortable with the amateur diagnoses of the poor baby. We have to remember that we see a very small glimpse into her life and daily routine, plus 90% if not more of the photos we see of her are at the very least filtered so may be changing her colouring dramatically.
We do know the TV is on a lot in the house and Cocomelon features heavily. She isn’t as mobile as one would expect at her age. She does seem to be quite large for her age but that may be linked to the lack of mobility and the portion sizes she is given which seem too big and possibly too carb heavy/ high in fat and salt.
In the photos that some others post of her, plus ones where she’s interacting with Chaz she seems a different child: happy and animated. Perhaps BYG likes her to look pouty and solemn as it’s her preferred selfie mode?
One would hope after such a dramatic medical situation BYG would see the value in regular check ups for Larose if she had any concerns. Sadly I think she won’t change her stance on vaccinations.
We do know the TV is on a lot in the house and Cocomelon features heavily. She isn’t as mobile as one would expect at her age. She does seem to be quite large for her age but that may be linked to the lack of mobility and the portion sizes she is given which seem too big and possibly too carb heavy/ high in fat and salt.
In the photos that some others post of her, plus ones where she’s interacting with Chaz she seems a different child: happy and animated. Perhaps BYG likes her to look pouty and solemn as it’s her preferred selfie mode?
One would hope after such a dramatic medical situation BYG would see the value in regular check ups for Larose if she had any concerns. Sadly I think she won’t change her stance on vaccinations.
My 21 month old loves cocomelon and it’s a god send sometimes, but most of the time yes it’s on, but she’s not even paying attention , she’s either running about climbing on furniture, or in presses pulling out everything, she’s so mischievous, a typical toddler which I guess laplonkedhere isn’t really yet, anything we’ve seen of her is a child that is sedentary and very emotionalless 
let’s hope we can be proved wrong and she’s excels as a toddler 
let’s hope we can be proved wrong and she’s excels as a toddler Re the vaccines- there is merit to delaying them. Especially if you suspect there’s a neurological issue.
However That’s obviously not BYGs reasoning but I do find the demonisation of anyone who dosent immediately conform to all vaccine programmes abhorrent.
However That’s obviously not BYGs reasoning but I do find the demonisation of anyone who dosent immediately conform to all vaccine programmes abhorrent.
100% this. My youngest isn't vaccinated. My choice. Wish I'd never vaccinated my others tbh. But glad someone said it.
I rarely look at BYG’s Insta (she blocked my personal account years ago when I congratulated her on the plus size modeling) but I can still view her grid from time to time via my business page.
Anyways. Seriously. Is she just mocking scrunchies now with the Sunday roast stories?
Anyways. Seriously. Is she just mocking scrunchies now with the Sunday roast stories?
My son is very angry with me at the mo. He was born in ‘98 at the time that discredited Wakefield wrote about the MMR being linked to autism. Due to that I was too scared to get him his MMR, but I believe in vaccines so I paid for private single shots of the Measles then Mumps vaccines. I didn’t get him Rubella (can’t even remember why!)
Anyways, fast forward 23 years and he is training to be a Dr. He starts his first placement next week and casually asked me to provide him with all his immunization records. Ooops. He has had to have an MMR jab today and will get a booster next month. He has to delay his placement and his uni is kicking off. All my fault.
He said ‘you idiot, you drank the kool aid’
In my defense he was presenting as being on the spectrum at 18 months so I did what I thought was best.
That’s all we can do for them, but hopefully making decisions by being as informed as possible.
They won’t thank you for it I suspect you couldn’t get the rubella part of the vaccine because the manufacturers of it actually started to produce the MMR combined instead so it was impossible to come by.
My reasoning is similar, although a decade after you, as advised by prominent neurosurgeon friends in a well known specialist hospital, we delayed the vaccine programme (didn’t shun it!) my second son was diagnosed just before age 3- if he had had all vaccines I would have sworn blind that it was the MMr vax. Rightly or wrongly. But vaccine compensation programmes run globally…. So just do what you feel as a parent, is best at the time.
My reasoning is similar, although a decade after you, as advised by prominent neurosurgeon friends in a well known specialist hospital, we delayed the vaccine programme (didn’t shun it!) my second son was diagnosed just before age 3- if he had had all vaccines I would have sworn blind that it was the MMr vax. Rightly or wrongly. But vaccine compensation programmes run globally…. So just do what you feel as a parent, is best at the time.
I didn’t mean to offend with my suggestion of autism. It is a spectrum and therefore lots of different signs. Lots of parents are dismissed for suspecting autism because their child is sociable (within a comfortable environment) and can make eye contact - so it is definitely still underlooked & overlooked if a child doesn’t fit every single sign. I do have an autistic immediate-family member, and they very much communicate with grunts and don’t make much eye contact amongst other things.
If your Facebook friend only ever shared photos & videos of their child looking miserable, even 30 second clips a few times a week, you’d wonder why. I think we all make an effort to get our kids to smile in photos or take photos of them playing in a natural state etc, it’s actually quite hard for me to get photos of my child looking miserable because as soon as she sees my phone she starts dancing and smiling for the camera.
Something is off with Laorse and of course none of us would know what that is for sure. My girl at the same age, was climbing up both ends of a slide, jumping off furniture, running wild & babbling constantly! I think most parents have a similar experience of their children at the same age. Obvi we shouldn’t compare kids but it’s hard not to… especially when the child we’re wondering about, seems so bloody miserable & deprived of any stimuli. Lauren’s in for a shock whenever she does start moving around (does she crawl yet?) we’ll definitely all be seeing a playpen in photos soon!
If your Facebook friend only ever shared photos & videos of their child looking miserable, even 30 second clips a few times a week, you’d wonder why. I think we all make an effort to get our kids to smile in photos or take photos of them playing in a natural state etc, it’s actually quite hard for me to get photos of my child looking miserable because as soon as she sees my phone she starts dancing and smiling for the camera.
Something is off with Laorse and of course none of us would know what that is for sure. My girl at the same age, was climbing up both ends of a slide, jumping off furniture, running wild & babbling constantly! I think most parents have a similar experience of their children at the same age. Obvi we shouldn’t compare kids but it’s hard not to… especially when the child we’re wondering about, seems so bloody miserable & deprived of any stimuli. Lauren’s in for a shock whenever she does start moving around (does she crawl yet?) we’ll definitely all be seeing a playpen in photos soon!
My youngest was a strange baby. He was born 2 weeks premature, and slept a lot for the first few months. So different to my oldest, who was a constant barrage of emotions and demands 
I remember being in hospital on the third day after my c-section and asking a midwife ‘he hasn’t woken up for over 12 hrs … should I try and feed him anyway?’ The lady looked at me like I was deranged and said ‘don’t be opening up no can of worms Ms L’ …He was the sleepiest baby I’ve ever known. I have so many photos of him out for the count, head drooped over to the side while propped up in his little outfits for numerous parties/events/get together. The other mums in my circle would openly question what was wrong with him, as he sat very quietly on my lap, or slept through a riotous get together.
He didn’t crawl until he was 18 months. He walked at 36 months. He spoke random words at 4 years and had speech therapy until junior school.
Everyone thought he was weird, I knew.
He is now a big show-off at 20 years old. He is a drama student and likes nothing better than lively chat, dancing, having fun.
So soz for the merails on this thread, but it is worth a small reminder that babies are ever evolving beings, and the most outgoing, involved and responsible parents can still have quiet, withdrawn babies that draw concern fromfamily and friends. And those babies might grow up to promise their mum they’ll be getting an Oscar in a decade
My two have ASD and we’re nothing like LaRose. I agree with the poster who said we have to be mindful of the quack diagnosis of conditions like autism. I know it’s done from a place of concern but I hate the stereotype of autistic children. They are as unique and individual as any other child.
I think the child has just been ignored and put in front of the tv far too much. No play time, no toys or stimulation, stuck indoors in bed most days with two lazy parents who only use her as a photo op.
I think the child has just been ignored and put in front of the tv far too much. No play time, no toys or stimulation, stuck indoors in bed most days with two lazy parents who only use her as a photo op.
This is exactly it. It’s minimal interaction. The only interaction she gets is from Lazy Loz or Chunky Chaz filming her from afar, usually when she’s plonked in front of the TV. Put the bleeping phone down and engage with your baby. Chaz.5 does seem better at this from what we’ve seen, I’ll give him that, but she just seems so docile and melancholy, poor thing.
You know the way they say if you get a cat you should actually get two so they will keep each other company? I wonder if that is the reason Loz got pregnant so soon, did she think having two kids close in age would mean they could amuse each other.
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