Lauren Goodger #66

[SoupDragon31]

God… when you sit back and just take Lauren and the rest of them out of it, an innocent baby is dead… she never even got to feel her mothers touch (regardless of what we think of her mother) I hope Lorena enjoyed the comfort of her mama’s heartbeat and comfy tummy and I hope there was someone up There waiting to wrap her up in their arms. God forbid someone is at fault for this. My heart.

Lorena, I am truly so sorry to you.

 

[Clickbait]

So the OK article adds to the confusion for me.

Firstly the statement she thought her waters had broken because she hadn’t been resting. Um, surely they’d broken because she was more than 40 weeks pregnant and ready to give birth?

Next the point about the advice she was given not to go to hospital after her waters had broken because of risk of infection. The Sun article states she phoned the hospital and she was told to stay at home, the OK article says her NHS midwife said there was more chance of infection at the hospital so she decided to stay at home.

Then the addition in this article that not only was the cord knotted, it was around Lorena’s neck. After 3 days from water breaking to giving birth (after being rushed to hospital in an ambulance because the baby had no FH) to a child who was not breathing and could not be resuscitated, why did she make the statement “There was no pregnancy or labour complications and she was fine & healthy but I am not going into detail right now just know that there was nothing wrong with her or myself.”

Surely the autopsy is being undertaken to establish cause of death which will also look into whether there were any underlying health issues? She could not know that there was nothing wrong with Lorena simply because she was perfectly formed on the outside.

Saying she is doing this to raise awareness when she’s spreading or party to spreading misinformation is ridiculous. Saying her perfectly healthy child from a totally perfect labour died with no explanation is plain wrong and untrue. It creates more concern than it alleviates.

It appears that nuchal cords (where the umbilical cord is wrapped round the babies neck) are actually quite common. They can’t be prevented or untangled in the womb, they won’t always be picked up on a scan. Given how common they are I would imagine it would be something routinely checked and if one is found it can either be slipped over the baby’s head (if loose) or clamped and cut before the rest of the baby is delivered.

I really fear this is all damage limitation and blame deflection or overwhelming denial that she had a part in making decisions that contributed to the poor baby’s death.

I still hope she follows through with the pledge to really raise awareness and perhaps money for those charities that supported her, and that support others in a similar situation. I won’t hold my breath though.

 

[Piff paff puff]

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I think it's disgusting it's all about her as per. Charlie barely gets a mention. She's horrid

Maybe he will do a separate story

 

[CuppaTeanotcoffee]

Just seen a post on Facebook by Emma’s Diary and a few ladies commenting about why it took 3 days for the HOSPITAL to intervene.
Honestly. I despair.

 

[Giftinghell]

I have just thought the same but by the sounds of it, it was a bit of a complicated day. Bless her!!! If she was told she had a heart beat then she was told she never did. But then she registered her birth and death, so she must have been born alive. What ever happend it sounds horrific.

I kind of get it as I had a traumatic birth (nothing compared to this in the grand scheme of things) and I find it really hard to recall what ACTUALLY happened. Our story has changed a few times because we just can’t piece it together, even a few years later. Recalling such a huge trauma as this point probably would come across as confused as you’re not quite sure when and in what order things happened

 

[Clickbait]

How do we know she’s smoked pregnant? Sorry quite new here

We don’t. It’s pure speculation. She has been a smoker. There have been comments made including recently on the Daily Mail comments section that she was spotted smoking whilst pregnant.

Likewise no evidence that she took drugs whilst pregnant.

I think some posters are very upset by her behaviour and want to find more reasons to have a go at her.

If there was any evidence it would have been shared on here and feature in the Wiki.

 

[louisekc]

God… when you sit back and just take Lauren and the rest of them out of it, an innocent baby is dead… she never even got to feel her mothers touch (regardless of what we think of her mother) I hope Lorena enjoyed the comfort of her mama’s heartbeat and comfy tummy and I hope there was someone up There waiting to wrap her up in their arms. God forbid someone is at fault for this. My heart.

Lorena, I am truly so sorry to you.

I’m glad to read a post like this. Wish I hadn’t bothered with this thread while waiting for an appointment it’s making me feel sick! Can’t believe people are so quick to finger point and blame a mother for the death of her child on the minimal information they have. Babies can just die it may be rare but it still happens. Never read anything like some of the posts on here!

 

[Platformcrocs]

She is still pushing the theory that both babies where "petite" ffs poor Larose is not and has not ever been petite and that is bloody fine!! Why the duck does she think being petite matters!!

I know we have a laugh at her many filtered faces but Loz has serious issues with her body and appearance. But she's never bothered to work through it because that would take effort on her part and she can't go on the beg to get someone to do it for her.

She won't change at this point, but little Larose has already been dragged into the same tit. Constantly talking about "tiny" or "petite" she is, because that's all that matters to Lauren. She already filters Larose ffs. It'll do a number on her confidence and self-esteem when she's older. It's a real shame.

 

[OriginalAntiInfluencer]

I was left at home for 3 days after my waters broke, all I had to do was let the labour ward know if my pad had any changes in colour. I've seen a few comments on this thread slating Lauren, this woman is grieving the loss of a baby and is still human at the end of the day.

 

[Clickbait]

I was left at home for 3 days after my waters broke, all I had to do was let the labour ward know if my pad had any changes in colour. I've seen a few comments on this thread slating Lauren, this woman is grieving the loss of a baby and is still human at the end of the day.

Were you comfortable with that approach? I’d be really concerned and Googling like mad on what the guidance would be. I’m not sure how long ago that happened to you? I imagine guidance changes and may be dependent on personal circumstances, but it doesn’t seem standard practice any more.

 

[Anna666]

I’m glad to read a post like this. Wish I hadn’t bothered with this thread while waiting for an appointment it’s making me feel sick! Can’t believe people are so quick to finger point and blame a mother for the death of her child on the minimal information they have. Babies can just die it may be rare but it still happens. Never read anything like some of the posts on here!

You must lead a very sheltered life

 

[OriginalAntiInfluencer]

Were you comfortable with that approach? I’d be really concerned and Googling like mad on what the guidance would be. I’m not sure how long ago that happened to you? I imagine guidance changes and may be dependent on personal circumstances, but it doesn’t seem standard practice any more.

That was back in 2003 google etc wasn't a big thing back then it was old fashioned books, I had to trust the midwives, I was induced on day 3 and after a 16 hour labour had a healthy little girl

 

[A-Soul]

So many inconsistencies in her story, she clearly has been on here reading too from some of her comments. Now saying cord was around the neck. The naked midwife was there too. And how she manages to pose for photos is beyond me

I feel this is far too soon. She may come to regret speaking out only two weeks after the tragedy. I can not believe Moleman is letting this happen, photoshopped pics and all. He is the lowest of the low.

Also, sorry if this sounds insensitive, but don’t all babies have blue eyes? I’m only mentioning this as Lauren seemed surprised that Larose’s eyes became dark like Chaz’s.

 

[louisekc]

You must lead a very sheltered life

Nope not particularly

 

[mindyaneb]

I feel this is far too soon. She may come to regret speaking out only two weeks after the tragedy. I can not believe Moleman is letting this happen, photoshopped pics and all. He is the lowest of the low.

Also, sorry if this sounds insensitive, but don’t all babies have blue eyes? I’m only mentioning this as Lauren seemed surprised that Larose’s eyes became dark like Chaz’s.

After two weeks, I can’t imagine it’s the best time to speak out. Your emotions are all over the place, the shock, the reality that losing a child puts you in is all so confusing.

She posted a story saying she thought it was the right time to speak out and to anyone struggling you’re not alone. I was taken aback because it reads like loss accounts that have months/years/decades of living with it, not someone so fresh in grief.

 

[Lottiew1]

Maybe he will do a separate story

Loz probably won't allow it!

 

[Xxcxcc]

Whatever peoples opinions on lauren saying moleman made her do the interview. She wasn't pushed into it. She wasn't pushed into a full face of makeup or made to pout she chose to do this and she is telling different versions of events in different mags, so people are bound to speculate, this is a gossip forum

 

[Anna666]

Nope not particularly

Before I press ignore ... if you're ` easily ` offended .... maybe tattle is NOT for you, policing the threads is against rules ... I would go further but alas you seem like a delicate flower, and I wouldn't wish to upset you anymore than you are at present ... many things also offend me, at times on here, but as an ADULT .... I scroll past and IGNORE ... its called a ` gossip ` forum .... the world is not a nice place ` sadly ` and we will often see things that upset us, such as a ` mother ` behaving like a drugged up porn star at her 1 year olds birthday ... merely 2 weeks after losing her baby, and now doing cringeworthy mag shoots, and exclusives in the media, while filtered to duck, facefuckin the camera .... but such is life ( in thick as pig tit lozzaasss world ) AYYE

 

[timelife]

She is still pushing the theory that both babies where "petite" ffs poor Larose is not and has not ever been petite and that is bloody fine!! Why the duck does she think being petite matters!!

Loool 9lbs is not petite!

 

[louisekc]

Before I press ignore ... if you're ` easily ` offended .... maybe tattle is NOT for you, policing the threads is against rules ... I would go further but alas you seem like a delicate flower, and I wouldn't wish to upset you anymore than you are at present ... many things also offend me, at times on here, but as an ADULT .... I scroll past and IGNORE ... its called a ` gossip ` forum .... the world is not a nice place ` sadly ` and we will often see things that upset us, such as a ` mother ` behaving like a drugged up porn star at her 1 year olds birthday ... merely 2 weeks after losing her baby .... but such is life AYYE

Chill your tits Anna666 I didn’t direct anything at you!
Ps I said it’s all on minimal information. Which you know, it is! Maybe you’re the one who needs to chill with the policing. You’re the one having a hissy fit on someone having an opinion on your opinion.