Out of respect for the bereaved, we need to lay off speculation about the cause of the baby’s death. It’s triggering and upsetting for those of us living with the grief of having lost an infant, when there’s no logical reason, the baby just died. It’s a never ending nightmare.
Absolutely agree. If, or when, Lorenas parents choose to speak about it that's entirely their choice. It's incredibly difficult trying to even exist and get through each day as a non well known person, so I can't begin to imagine how it must feel know there's a lot of people speculating, a few judging, and just all together people the parents don't know discussing the loss of their baby.
Also (not intended for the poster I've quoted) as for pregnant women having photos taken of themselves ect, most pregnancies do not end in the loss of a baby, so most pregnant women would not think to not do something incase they offend a bereaved parent, or they themselves go through a loss. In most cases you just don't think anything will go that catastrophically wrong, unless someone close to you has experienced it. Pregnancy should be a time of joy, and whilst I agree it can be hard to be around pregnant women and babies after a loss, that doesn't mean you as a bereaved parent get to taint their joy. Most of us who've experienced this probably go home and have a good cry, and wouldn't dream of making a pregnant women or those who've just had a baby feel bad because they are happy.