Lauren Goodger #64

[lamaitresse]

About the previous thread Every single person that posted a vicious comment about Lauren should be ashamed of themselves to write the things that were posted about a woman that was pregnant is shocking beyond words, pure twisted trolling at its worst. Now with the tragic events with her baby a lot of people should think twice before writing.

Unfortunately, life isn't like that and you'd need to have very shallow emotional bandwidth not to understand that you CAN say horrible things about people who irritate you or live in a not respectable way - yet life CAN throw a tragic event at that person and you can feel sorry and extend kindness to the one you're not keen on.

If you don't realise that this is one of life's contradictions - and human beings are complex, I don't know what else to say to you.

Everyone has done this at some point in their lives.

 

[Django]

Did she have a home birth? Could possibly be complications from that. Giving birth at home always has been me personally feel super uncomfortable and not right. I’d want to be in a hospital just incase. Poor Lauren

No, her post said they'd just got home from hospital, so probably not. The death rate from home births is lower than hospital but that's probably because high risk mums to be would opt for a hospital.
RIP baby girl

 

[timbertrot]

To spend 9 months of your 11 month old daughters life pregnant must have been so hard on body and mind and then for this to happen. Can only assume it was SIDS.

Where does it say she's passed away 2 days after birth?

On Lauren’s post, she said she had no complications during pregnancy or birth and said her baby died two days later.

 

[SoupDragon31]

Did she have a home birth? Could possibly be complications from that. Giving birth at home always has been me personally feel super uncomfortable and not right. I’d want to be in a hospital just incase. Poor Lauren

I didn’t mean to speculate but I did wonder this. She was also quite obese which probably contributed to high blood pressure. I know she was hoping for a second home birth, so I did consider whether she tried for that and her midwife then insisted on going to hospital due to no progress. I understand the appeal of a home birth, but there’s very little means to actively monitor woman or baby during labor. Saying that, Lauren alludes to both her & baby being fine during & after, so potentially SIDS or perhaps an infection or undetected heart condition? - but I would have expected a photo of Lorena alive, so maybe she did pass during labor and Lauren just hasn’t had the ability to word it correctly given her understandably fragile state of mind.

 

[Roseannanna]

it is inappropriate to attempt to bring the death of her ex into it, you don’t need to be a fan of hers to understand that. There are no facts to state, she was full term and went into labour, no need for speculation about it at all. I can’t even believe you mention freedom of speech tbh.

Feel upset. I posted on news article showing my sympathy for Lauren Goodger and said I hope the still birth wasn’t triggered by her ex tragically passing away. Apparently it’s inappropriate according to her fans. I didn’t even state the facts. I just wondered if that could have been a cause. Where is the freedom of speech .

But I made a mistake as I didn’t know it was still born or infant death. The tabloids give different stories. Either way it’s very sad. Did not mean to offend!!

 

[Rach88]

Oh gosh this brings me back 12 years ago which still feels like yesterday my mum lost our newborn brother after a smooth pregnancy and birth we've never made sense of it never understood why it's cruel I'm incredibly sorry to Lauren Charles and larose and I really hope they've got love and support round them right now

 

[Roseannanna]

This! It’s obviously awful awful timing that her ex died around her due date but speculation about it causing the death of her baby is in extremely bad taste. Freedom of speech is important, but so is choosing your words wisely. I’m not a mother so this is all so unimaginably awful and hard for me to comprehend but all we can do is is hope that they get through this the best that they can. Rest in peace Lorena.

I come from a background working in Hospitals so It just reminds me of a tragic incident that I heard about.I did not mean to offend anyone. I find this incident so tragic how it can all happen at once . What I said was not spiteful it was stupid. I did not know full facts and tabloids give different story.

 

[Cack Conroe]

This is so shocking and horrible. We all knew something was going on but I never expected it to be this.

RIP to baby Lorena, her little life was over before it even began. My heart goes out to Lauren, Charles, and little Larose, who won’t know why her mum and dad are so sad. The grief for Lauren must be indescribable.

 

[klarakluckbag]

Those poor parents, what a dreadful outcome for the family.
I hope that Lauren and Charlie have access to a specialist bereavement team at their hospital, and that they are offered counselling to help them to move forward, and to cope with their devastating loss.

Not tone policing, but it's probably not helpful to speculate on the cause of this, sometimes these things just happen for no apparent reason. However, this is rare, and posters here who are currently pregnant, please try not to dwell on this too much, and please, please do contact your hospital if you are worried about anything. Your midwife team will always prefer that you "waste their time" (you aren't wasting anyone's time, it's their job to care for you) than not seek help and reassurance if you think that something is not right.

Love to all Tattlers this afternoon, it's been really nice to see the respect and empathy on this thread

 

[amianinfluenceryet]

I think we’ll all be squeezing our babies a little tighter tonight

 

[Polly_89]

Did she have a home birth? Could possibly be complications from that. Giving birth at home always has been me personally feel super uncomfortable and not right. I’d want to be in a hospital just incase. Poor Lauren

This is not a helpful comment. I know you likely don’t mean it in bad taste.. but you’re essentially insinuating that the passing is because of Lauren’s choice for a home birth and therefore Lauren’s fault.
Just try to remember there is grieving parents and they likely read the is.

 

[savethelastdance]

Really didn’t expect to be reading this awful news today. I hope Lauren and Charles receive all the support they’re going to need at this truly difficult time.
RIP Lorena 🤍

 

[Cack Conroe]

Those poor parents, what a dreadful outcome for the family.
I hope that Lauren and Charlie have access to a specialist bereavement team at their hospital, and that they are offered counselling to help them to move forward, and to cope with their devastating loss.

Not tone policing, but it's probably not helpful to speculate on the cause of this, sometimes these things just happen for no apparent reason. However, this is rare, and posters here who are currently pregnant, please try not to dwell on this too much, and please, please do contact your hospital if you are worried about anything. Your midwife team will always prefer that you "waste their time" (you aren't wasting anyone's time, it's their job to care for you) than not seek help and reassurance if you think that something is not right.

Love to all Tattlers this afternoon, it's been really nice to see the respect and empathy on this thread

This is the thing, people may be just wondering, but it usually comes across as ascribing blame. Because that is the logical outcome of such conversations, even if that’s not the intention.

 

[MrsDimSum]

Such sad news for them, I hope they both have the right people around them to help get them through this, and they both take time away from SM to grieve privately for their own sakes

 

[thepantsqueen]

I just can't possibly can't imagine the pain and grief, it's just so sad.

 

[Its_Me]

Poor girl I know she’s not liked by many people but I’ve always felt there was an air of sadness around her, she just strikes me as someone who’s deeply unhappy and troubled. Now this, it’s unthinkable

 

[Cucumber and eggs]

Ahhhh bloody hell just seen on ig. Poor thing, Lauren is many things but doesn't deserve to lose a child. My heart hurts for her and Charles.

 

[SoupDragon31]

This is the thing, people may be just wondering, but it usually comes across as ascribing blame. Because that is the logical outcome of such conversations, even if that’s not the intention.

I don’t think anyone is trying to blame Lauren. Obviously none of us know what has actually happened. We just know she was planning & hoping for a home birth. But as I said in my other post reply, I think it seems likely that this was a stillbirth.

 

[maytoseptember]

No, her post said they'd just got home from hospital, so probably not. The death rate from home births is lower than hospital but that's probably because high risk mums to be would opt for a hospital.
RIP baby girl

The death rate may be lower for home births but that doesn’t mean that deaths don’t happen. Also, if she did have a home birth and the baby went into cardiac arrest at home, they would all have been taken to hospital.

There’s obviously no point speculating about the minor details because no-one knows anything, and we can sit here throwing out possible scenarios all day. Equally it’s not possible to say for sure that Lauren didn’t have a home birth, going by what little she has said.

 

[Mosescat]

She wrote that she’s devastated.. not devastate for Lauren andCharlie. Just I’m devasted.. okay well this moment isn’t about you, it’s about two grieving parents

No. Completely inappropriate comment. I'm surprised and actually proud of her strength for being able to post anything at all. This is not the time for critiqing her posts