This is a horrible vile comment, you are assuming because of her weight or IF she had a home birth caused this. Could you not hold off commenting on a public forum things like this when we don’t know the full story. Losing a child is the worst thing anyone will ever go through but no mum should ever blame herself or have blame pointed at her.
Have you actually read my previous comments? I haven’t once accused her of being at fault or even insulted her once regarding her loss. Many people speculated that her weight could cause problems with her pregnancy & labor, and expressed concern that her doctors had allowed her to get to the size she was without intervention. It is a fact that lifestyle choices & high blood pressure can and do cause stillbirths. We also have people assuming STRESS caused the death of her baby, maybe go jump on them for their actual fact-less comments?
Sorry, but, it was fine for us ALL to mention her weight whilst pregnant, but somehow unacceptable now because she’s sadly lost her baby?… We ALL expressed concern for unborn baby & her own health with the recent photos in the blue outfit… It’s really very natural to speculate & wonder about things, it would be entirely weird to not question certain things. I even mention that in Lauren’s wording, it makes it seem like Lorena was born healthy & alive, and died after.
I get where you’re coming from, it is natural to wonder but this isn’t the time to comment and leave a footprint about it behind. I haven’t read the previous threads, I don’t believe you should body shame anyone really but that’s each to their own. But at the moment speculating something so raw and something that has literally just happened is a bit inappropriate, I bet Lauren is blaming herself at the moment. This comment wasn’t just to you, I’ve seen a couple of comments speculating on what it could be, either way, an innocent baby has passed and until we know the details, If we ever do, it’s not our place on here to discuss what could have happened to her.
I commented on that particular post of yours were you DID speculate if her weight was an issue or did she have a home birth, and you also quite sickly questioned the photo she used. Wind your neck in this isn’t some private WhatsApp between mates this is public were not only the grieving parents can read but also their families and more than that there is pregnant woman on this and could easily be mums who have gone through similar reading these nasty posts.
Because it’s trying to apportion blame after someone has lost their child. Inappropriate at best and sickening at worst[/QUOTE]
Why should anyone have to hide their pregnancy away in case the worst happens? So ridiculousThis is very very sad news, what makes it worse is that many people in the public eye love showing off pregnancy belly's, OK! shoots etc....then when something unfortunate happens they ask for privacy (which is understandable), sometimes I think just go through the pregnancy/early days privately.....same thing happened to Zara Philips announced her pregnancy then following day suffered a miscarriage, nevertheless her pain must be unimaginable
