Moved past it? How can you move past that your hubby to be was sacked because of abuse of power with young girls as a police man? Come on, police get away with ALOT. It has to be BAD and PROVEN for them to straight sack them both. No desk duties, no degrade of their roles just plain sacking!! His good pay, career progression, job stability and PENSION BOOM gone. How many times would you have to explain why he doesn't work for the police to your family and friends and new people? She says all the time how small of a place it is they live. Everyone will know. There's things you move past and there are things that are just not possible and this is one of them. I know you said you aren't justifying his behaviour but your comment raised an eyebrow and I just don't buy that you personally would honestly move on or feel anyone could.