she needs help for her HPD, but she'll never get it because she doesn't want it. receiving the appropriate support and treatment that she desperately needs would involve her having to accept a diagnosis of HPD, and be willing to address all her problematic behaviour etc. that's never going to happen, because she's far more interested in seeking out private therapists who she can pay, bully and manipulate them into diagnosing her with whatever bandwagon diagnosis she is desperate to receive, because having a "popular" MH diagnosis that fits with the current trend on SM - ADHD, for example - means she can use all the hashtags and use them to lure people to her platform under the guise that she is raising awareness for mental health, when in reality, it's all lies for the purpose of attention seeking, over-dramatised content. and whilst it would be unprofessional for a therapist - private or otherwise - to diagnose her with anything but the very applicable HPD, i can fully imagine them diagnosising ehr with whatever diagnosis she is desperately seeking under duress, just to get rid of her hounding with constant messages and phone calls, using emotional blackmail to threats about how she will end her life u less she receives a diagnosis of PTSD/ADHD/trauma/whatever diagnosis she is coveting in that moment, and ensuring that they feel horribly uncomfortable as a result of her predatory behaviour, it wouldn't surprise me if they feel trapped and diagnose her as she demands, fearful because they know she has the potential to become a stalker, likely hanging around outside their house indecently exposing herself.
any diagnosis Laura claims to have, and all the mental illnesses she insists on attaching as hashtags to her posts, i would take with a pinch of salt, because she has proved repeatedly that she lies about her mental health, with the details of her "breakdown" becoming more and more exaggerated each time she tells the story! the claims she "almost died" when in actuality, she never even tried to harm herself and all that drama about her having a very basic gynae procedure and hyping it up to give the impression she may have cancer - only to insensitively announce - in a post with every possible gynecological and cancer hashtag possible - that's it's all fine, she's okay and nobody needs to. worry about HER, all under the guise of awareness for gynecological cancers, knowing damn well people who are battling cancer will be reading her posts and bragging that the results of her elaborate smear test - which she initially made out to be an invasive operation - were all clear! her behaviour fits every possible symptom for a diagnosis of HPD, and i have absolutely zero respect for any of the therapists she pays to diagnosis her with anything but the personality diagnosis she desperately needs to acknowledge and address the impact it is having on her own life, but also that of her family - especially her little boys. it will never happen though, because if she is paying for therapy, even if a therapist raises their concerns and wants to discuss HPD, she will simply refuse, sack them and go seek out another naive therapist to manipulate as it suits her.