there are so many times on this thread that i begin typing the words "she has no shame..." only to delete them, because she is so aware of her lack of shame and so proud of it that she has dedicated an entire book to the topic of never feeling shame or guilt about
anything - whether that's behaving inappropriately in public, indecent exposure, publicly announcing that you regret having kids and hate having to spend time or interact with them, fabricating stories and lying about the latest contrived incident where you ended up covered in
![Pile of poo :poop: 💩](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/gh/joypixels/emoji-assets@5.0/png/64/1f4a9.png)
, emasculating your husband on SM, body shaming other women, aggressively labelling total strangers as "cunts" whilst simultaneously labelling anyone who criticises your appalling behaviour as "bullies" etc etc. the fact she has written a book entitled "no shame" warrants a HPD diagnosis inself, and is such a red flag - especially in the way that the book was written to supposedly encourage and "influence" other women to live a life where they do whatever they like - behave inappropriately, break the law, exploit their kids, are rude and aggressive etc - without ever feeling shame, under the guise that rEaL wOmEn don't feel shame!
no Laura, YOU don't feel shame. and the total lack of such a basic human emotion does not make you rEaL, it makes you unwell. her total lack of shame is an issue Laura actually needs to address in therapy, rather than purposefully describing and acting out specific "symptoms" by the book, in a attempt to manipulate her way into landing herself with a diagnosis of whatever mental illness she is currently striving to collect. despite supposedly being super proud of it, her refusal to acknowledge that her total inability to feel shame is not "normal" and has a hugely detrimental impact on her life is concerning.