The boob cake... what
I breastfed with all of my children (extended breastfeeding to be specific) and I still don’t get what she is trying to achieve. In fact, she’s making such a big deal out of breastfeeding as though she’s special for doing it, when it’s actually completely normal and should be perceived that way.The boob cake... what
I think she naturally gravities towards attachment parenting. The boob is the natural way to soothe a baby, the dummy has been invented as a substitute for those not breastfeeding. Having a baby is tiring to be honest.It seems that whenever Lana grizzles she puts her on the boob. Isn't that just the equivalent of giving her a dummy? It might be just the editing, but that's how it comes across.
Also, is it weird to go to bed at the same time as your baby? It came across as though this was the nightly routine and from 7.30pm she was upstairs with Lana while Alex was presumably downstairs on his own ...
I want to hope that their relationship is strong enough to withstand it, it’s such a short period of time really.I dunno... I do feel a bit sorry for Alex? After watching that video him and Kiera don't seem to spend much time together, especially since baby and Kiera go to bed at the same time and Kiera is cuddling the baby a lot of the time. Obviously thats only an edited snippet of their life
She’s cosleeping with Lana so it’s actually not recommended for Alex to sleep in the same bed as them. You’re not really supposed to leave your baby to sleep in a separate room until at least 6 months, so it’s quite normal to go to bed early with them.I dunno... I do feel a bit sorry for Alex? After watching that video him and Kiera don't seem to spend much time together, especially since baby and Kiera go to bed at the same time and Kiera is cuddling the baby a lot of the time. Obviously thats only an edited snippet of their life
I’m not even sure there is enough room in the house for more kids? Is it two bed?Honestly it just feels like she never really bothered to push herself to work cos she knew she'd be a mum one day and could get away with not working. She's already talking about being broody for another baby... girl im not sure how you can afford the one you have, as sweet though she is.
Apologies, realised this is in the Rave section so shouldnt be saying stuff like that here!
I had to unfollow her for a couple months it just got too much!We get it, you breastfeed
I feel sorry for Alex. She’s too clingy it’s concerning. It seems like he’s never allowed to hold/feed/cuddle herI know this is a rave thread but whatever, she really irritates me.
From her QandA
- if lana is grizzling during a nappy change she will 'boob' her. Just why??? Maybe for a newborn but for a 6 month old? Give her a dummy or soothe her another way. Why make life so difficult for yourself.
- lana contact naps for every nap. Again, why make life difficult? I love cuddling my sleepy baby but I also love getting an hour to myself. Again, why martyr yourself?
- She wants to buy a big floor bed for all her kids. Okay Miss Girl, make sure you have a steady income first. Then replies passive aggressively to a comment about safe sleep.
I just find her unbearably smug to be honest.