Wow what a heartless statement to make!
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His poor parents. Tom was such a lovely genuine guy.
Why the rush to get rid of his things aswell? I know she will need to have a sort out eventually but its not even been a year!! She clearly wants rid so theres no reminders of him when shagging her new piece.
I’m 2 mins in and she is coming across so so bad and almost like she is enjoying it
Also when she says “max George has just text me asking how I’m coping, what am I supposed to say to that” I thought that came across so so rude
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I knew who Tom was and saw that he had died, and because his old thread was in his name I was curious to see what the posts were about. I’m pretty shocked tbh.Yes she’s just so hard-faced on that video. Tom is so lovely and funny on it though. But you can actually see him struggling to remember stuff, maybe the tumour was already there then
Meanwhile, Kelsey on GMB looking really hard-faced saying that the last couple of weeks have been hard for her - that’ll be because more people are beginning to voice their opinion about her - and the fact that the press have discovered her killer boyfriend.
I caught up here so watched the This Morning clip and she was very dominating. I get the “positive vibes” mantra but it felt a bit like “don’t you dare not be positive” to everyone including Tom.
I thought she spoke about herself a lot today. Grief is very personal and very subjective and I’m grateful I haven’t been where she is. But after only 8 months and homing in on the first Christmas my kids had without their dad and I had without my husband, I think I’d still be struggling to get through each day much less film a series, go to parties/awards and get up at stupid o’clock for TV interviews.
I thought it was interesting when she said she felt guilty but wasn’t able to say why. It felt a bit like she felt she had to say that but it’s not really how she feels.
I probably won’t watch the series but I’ll pick up what it’s like here hopefully.
I’m watching it. Anyone else found it weird at the beginning she mentions her family, her best mates but not toms family?
Hope the kids first christmas without tom is spent surrounded by family, and not the new boyfriend
Just want to point something out I’m 6 mins in but the way Kelsey is grieving is completely different to the way George shelley grieved over his sister. Like he did a full social media disappear for over a year and then did this documentary and the sadness he showed even after he went to therapy and it being coming up to a year of his sisters tragic death
I know!!
I’m guessing Tom’s family weren’t happy about it, although his mother is in the show for a very very short interview. But yes, it’s about Kelsey’s family…again!
Yes, it was rude. Also it does highlight the whole difficulty - she says that people cross the road to avoid her, yet what are they going to say? She doesn’t like people asking how she is.
Then she replies to Max with, “yeah fine babes, just trying to get through it” - that’s the coldness that comes across again.
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I want so badly to believe shes not cold hearted because it sucks for tom and his family, but she proves it again and again
She’s coming across TERRIBLY
She always sounds and looks like she is fed up talking about him cause she wants to only talk about herself and how great she thinks she is , fed up with everyone caring about him and talking about lovely he was , fed up with him being the famous one that people liked but she knows his name and his death is the only way she can keep herself in the spotlight getting attention and fame so I honestly think she’ll keep the grieving widow attention seeking act going for a long time until maybe job opportunities or tv show offers come in maybe like strictly or being a presenter on loose women cause Kelsey is selfish she only cares about what she can gain from this and as annoyed as she comes across that she has to keep speaking about Tom she knows it’s the only way people will pay attention to her. She speaks about him so cold and bluntly like she’s saying he’s dead he’s not coming back so can you all stop caring about him and focus on me because I’m so amazing. She literally is only known because of him she’s only known as being Tom Parker’s wife!
I understand she’s gone through is awful losing her husband so young is not an easy thing so I do feel sorry for her or anyone going through that but it’s also difficult to feel sorry for her when she’s such a very self centred and disrespectful person. I’m not saying she has to stay in bed all day everyday crying and not living her life but it’s like she doesn’t even care . At first I thought maybe she’s just in shock and it hasn’t set in yet that he’s gone or maybe she’s trying to appear strong but the more times goes on the more her true colours show. I honestly believe she loved the fame and money that came with being with him more than she actually was in love with him cause that’s how it looks with the way she is behaving. I’m not saying she didn’t love him but I think she loves the fame and attention more. In the podcast she did with Giovanna fletcher when Kelsey was talking about herself she said something like “I have been in lots of films and lots of tv shows I’ve had a successful career too” no you haven’t you have a 2 minute appearance in an eastenders episode like over 10 years ago and I can’t name one film and you have been in nobody knows who are you sorry but that’s the truth. She has an ego and I don’t think she can stand that Tom was the famous one and still is even after his death.
look at Toms family and brother who have been low-key and more private when they are clearly grieving and devastated after losing Tom but you don’t see them trying to make money off of his death the way Kelsey is and trying to seek fame using his name and death constantly to achieve that fame. Why can’t she just be private the kids deserve that.
I understand she’s gone through is awful losing her husband so young is not an easy thing so I do feel sorry for her or anyone going through that but it’s also difficult to feel sorry for her when she’s such a very self centred and disrespectful person. I’m not saying she has to stay in bed all day everyday crying and not living her life but it’s like she doesn’t even care . At first I thought maybe she’s just in shock and it hasn’t set in yet that he’s gone or maybe she’s trying to appear strong but the more times goes on the more her true colours show. I honestly believe she loved the fame and money that came with being with him more than she actually was in love with him cause that’s how it looks with the way she is behaving. I’m not saying she didn’t love him but I think she loves the fame and attention more. In the podcast she did with Giovanna fletcher when Kelsey was talking about herself she said something like “I have been in lots of films and lots of tv shows I’ve had a successful career too” no you haven’t you have a 2 minute appearance in an eastenders episode like over 10 years ago and I can’t name one film and you have been in nobody knows who are you sorry but that’s the truth. She has an ego and I don’t think she can stand that Tom was the famous one and still is even after his death.
look at Toms family and brother who have been low-key and more private when they are clearly grieving and devastated after losing Tom but you don’t see them trying to make money off of his death the way Kelsey is and trying to seek fame using his name and death constantly to achieve that fame. Why can’t she just be private the kids deserve that.
I hate the way she moans about him like he’s upstairs having a nap. “Tom would never help with this” “Tom would never organise that” “Tom wouldn’t do xyz”. I’m sure Tom would love to be here and able to do a 5k walk before a celebration, sadly that wasn’t the hand he was dealt. He’s not here to defend himself and she makes out she did everything in their lives while he was a lazy husband who let her.
I think she just needs to fade away from public life for a while. Concentrate on their kids. There is no right way to grieve, but it doesn’t feel like she’s even grieving. She just comes across as bitter about the attention Tom and his memory still receive and she’s doing what she can to take away from the “lovely Tom” image he had. It’s very strange.
I think she just needs to fade away from public life for a while. Concentrate on their kids. There is no right way to grieve, but it doesn’t feel like she’s even grieving. She just comes across as bitter about the attention Tom and his memory still receive and she’s doing what she can to take away from the “lovely Tom” image he had. It’s very strange.
All I took from that first episode was
“Me, me, I, my family, my friends, me, me”
“Me, me, I, my family, my friends, me, me”
It’s actually so cold how she’s coming across. Yes, grief is subjective and I consider myself fortunate to not be in her position of losing my partner. But she seems so closed off and it’s strange how tom’s family aren’t mentioned at the start? And it’s almost like belittles him in past videos, always about herself and how lazy he was etc. She’s not coming across well at all and tbh banning the wanted’s tracks from the kids hearing them is almost offensive to his memory and legacy.
The banner she had made for the Memorial Day.. I only saw two pics of Tom on his own. The rest all had Kelsey in 
even a hello mag cover.
even a hello mag cover.
Idk if it’s just me but I hate the word ‘dead’ in that context. Saying someone has passed is much nicer
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