Kelsey Parker

[Laracroft007]

I can’t remember honestly I think I have blocked a lot out. I do think esp when you have kids there is an big element of “you’ve just got to get on with it” I haven’t grieved properly because for me I made a promise to my kids that I would do everything to make sure they were ok into adulthood. So we got up and we got on -but yeah there were extremely tough times, kids saying they didn’t want to be here anymore and me crying my eyes out because my kids lives weren’t meant to be like this.

Because they have a terminal illnesss and there are not really any treatments that for me made it easier to accept his passing because there just wasn’t anything that could be done for him. If he’d had a cancer that was treatable where others had survived and he hadn’t I would have found that a lot more difficult to accept. I just reason it as this was always going to happen to him, it was his fate.

To an extent I suppose I understand why she may focus just on herself because you do defo mourn for not only the person you have lost but the life that you yourself have lost. I even cry about my career because I’m now limited in the jobs I can do. Superficial but it’s not wrong because it’s something unexpected that happened to us and we are now living a life that we can’t escape.

I wouldn’t have gotten into a relationship though after such a short time. I doubt I ever will as I still consider myself married, I know the children will also never accept my being with anyone else and that’s ok because to them it’s mum and dad forever despite a death. (That’s not to say I’m going to live like a nun but I’m a lot further down the line that her).

A lot of aspects of her behaviour are not wrong, but they are exaggerated. I don’t think it’s right that after less than a year she’s framed herself as this bereavement expert. Yes she’s more expert than a lot but she knows tit all within that small amount of time. Her self promotion and positivity tit is all wrong though.

So sorry for your loss I can’t imagine
the meeting with the widow group seemed so forced like she definitely thought it was beneath her and she didn’t want to be there

 

[lalalandx21]

So sorry for your loss I can’t imagine
the meeting with the widow group seemed so forced like she definitely thought it was beneath her and she didn’t want to be there

Agreed. I felt this too, it felt as though it was just for her to clear her conscience that her selfishness was justified

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Those kids will either go one way or the other. They’ll either be fame hungry just like her and try seek fame and attention using their dads name and his death even if the kids have no talent they could still try get more fame by who their dad was OR it’ll be exactly like you said they’ll grow up and start looking up things about their parents and see all the videos from after their dad passed which show how fame hungry and disrespectful their mum was. Hopefully those kids grow up and see right through her bs and question her on why she made it all about her and why she was so fame hungry but with the way things are going I won’t be surprised if at least one of the kids is pushed into the spotlight more and more as Kelsey uses Toms name and death to get those kids the career she desperately wished she had while also keeping attention on herself.

She’s definitely pushing Aurelia towards showbiz. The way she’s always centre stage at the shows at her age is nausiating. At a lights switch on she was the only one with the mic. I doubt she was worthy of a mic over everyone else, especially as she only barely talking! That kind of nepo behaviour must be really irritating to the other kids and parents of that school who pay fees!
That kind of attention and fawning at such a young age usually creates a precocious and entitled cat. I know she’s young, but I can already see signs of this. It’s not her fault, it’s the people around her.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

She’s now banging on about herself om Fearne Cotton’s podcast 🥱

She’s also posted a vid of herself with the kids this morning - clearly only too bothered about getting her parenting ‘skills’ online that she doesn’t even notice Bodhi crying because he’s being squished!

ETA: Also, ‘solo parenting’?!! she doesn’t know the meaning of the term as she’s got that many people around her. She’ll be palming them onto someone else this afternoon!

 

[justhereforanoseylike]

She’s now banging on about herself om Fearne Cotton’s podcast 🥱

She’s also posted a vid of herself with the kids this morning - clearly only too bothered about getting her parenting ‘skills’ online that she doesn’t even notice Bodhi crying because he’s being squished!

Does she record all these videos on the same day because why has he always got that same tracksuit on?

 

[BobbyBoos]

Does she record all these videos on the same day because why has he always got that same tracksuit on?

Solo parenting with someone there to film her

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Solo parenting with someone there to film her

Yeah, and sat next to her!!!

 

[notokhun]

The snippet of her podcast with Fearne Cotton. Wow I don't think I have any words. She's so forceful about her right to move on.
'We are so black and white in this country, people think I should be walking around in black with a black veil over my face' just wow. No one thinks that but using his illness/death to make a name yourself playing the grieving widow whilst having a new man is in a bit
Also the constant I have to be happy etc because I have 2 kids, I understand to a point, however, red carpets, PR events aren't for your kids, they are for you. I just hope you are spending more time giving them security snd stability than your social media portrays

 

[justhereforanoseylike]

The snippet of her podcast with Fearne Cotton. Wow I don't think I have any words. She's so forceful about her right to move on.
'We are so black and white in this country, people think I should be walking around in black with a black veil over my face' just wow. No one thinks that but using his illness/death to make a name yourself playing the grieving widow whilst having a new man is in a bit
Also the constant I have to be happy etc because I have 2 kids, I understand to a point, however, red carpets, PR events aren't for your kids, they are for you. I just hope you are spending more time giving them security snd stability than your social media portrays

You dont need another man to make you happy. She shouldnt be reliant on that to find her happiness

 

[Here for gossip]

You dont need another man to make you happy. She shouldnt be reliant on that to find her happiness

I honestly will never understand why people think having a man is what u need for happy life I have been a single mother for 6 years and very happy with my own company, wanting a man and needing a man are completely different things

 

[Yorkshirewife]

The snippet of her podcast with Fearne Cotton. Wow I don't think I have any words. She's so forceful about her right to move on.
'We are so black and white in this country, people think I should be walking around in black with a black veil over my face' just wow. No one thinks that but using his illness/death to make a name yourself playing the grieving widow whilst having a new man is in a bit
Also the constant I have to be happy etc because I have 2 kids, I understand to a point, however, red carpets, PR events aren't for your kids, they are for you. I just hope you are spending more time giving them security snd stability than your social media portrays

She needs to just duck off back to where she came from now and stop being a thirsty cow. When she realises how irrelevant she is the better.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

She needs to just duck off back to where she came from now and stop being a thirsty cow. When she realises how irrelevant she is the better.

I feel you’re holding back a bit…

 

[Yorkshirewife]

I feel you’re holding back a bit…

Massively. I held the c bomb in

 

[CarrierPigeon]

I haven’t heard the whole Fearne Cotton interview, but from the bits I have heard I’d say this is the worst one yet.
She keeps saying that she said to Tom when he was saying:
“I’m going to die,” and she’d say “you’re not going to die.”
I get that she was trying to keep his spirits up, but does she not realise how ridiculously stifling this sounds?! Tom had been given a terminal diagnosis, they’d initially told him
12 months, and they’d informed him that the tumour was unoperable. Tom said himself that he knew the statistics.
Kelsey’s now talking as if she is more of an expert than the experts - and still going on as if she’s found a cure for glioblastoma. She’s unsufferable, she really is.

 

[lalalandx21]

Has anyone noticed she has never once really said she misses him? Never once has she said I’m sorry for my children? It is all me me me. I cannot bare her, she is horrific

“ walking into that room and getting diagnosed with GBM” “ terminator of cancers” she is an absolute disgrace I had to turn off the podcast before I threw my phone out my phone. I honestly hope somebody annihilates her with some home truths

How can I cope with this in my life? CAN SHE HEAR HERSELF

 

[tweaking]

I seen article in the trash rag (the sun) yesterday about her 1st Christmas without Tom. Forget to take screenshots but load people were commenting saying “im sure your new criminal boyf will keep you company” she’s insufferable poor Tom sounds like he wasn’t allowed be upset with her toxic “positivity”

 

[Smv2287]

She is toxic positivity at its finest.

 

[thecoffeequeen]

I cannot stand this women. At first I obviously felt heart sorry for her. Now it's ridiculous. After her many interviews , she comes across as a hard nose witch. Wish she would step away from the spotlight but sadly that's all she's interested in now. Not one modicum of emotion. Sorry she is revolting !

 

[CarrierPigeon]

She is acting more and more like a hard faced gangster’s moll with every interview. If you close your eyes it’s Katie Price!
The way she starts each sentence shouting “Fahw meeee, I fewwt thaaaht…”

 

[struggs123]

I didn’t watch it- I don’t need to I’ve lived it. But from What I’ve read the response to max asking how she’s doing I can relate to. I used to despise that question, it would make my blood boil. Why? How do you answer it? So on the surface you are ok you are functioning so your gut is to say “yes I am ok” but that sounds awful because how can you be ok when your husband has just died. But at the same time you can’t tell people what your really thinking or feeling because the magnitude of that most people wouldnt know what to say. Imagine an office colleague asking if you are ok and then telling them the truth.

I don't think her reaction was 'wrong', it's understandable to feel that way. What seems shady to me though is her including it in the documentary and naming him. Max was a close friend of Tom's for years, they experienced a lot together and he evidently sent it with good intentions, feels a bit humiliating to ensure people know it was him. Surely she could have said like it's really challenging when people ask x however pure the intent is.