It’s the way she says it too she’s like “he’s dead he’s not coming back” like she’s thinking “can we move on now
” then brings the conversation back to being about herself
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” then brings the conversation back to being about herself
Watching now. She said she has to keep herself busy. I bet she will crash and it will all hit her at once. She is running away from her grief
How are her kids going to feel when they're older and start looking up videos from around the time their dad passed, and then how fame hungry their mum seemed once he was gone
She has always seemed resentful of Tom even when he was alive. She comes across as someone who has had a toxic, bitter divorce, not like her much loved husband has just passed away! What a horrible woman. It radiates out of her face as well.
Those kids will either go one way or the other. They’ll either be fame hungry just like her and try seek fame and attention using their dads name and his death even if the kids have no talent they could still try get more fame by who their dad was OR it’ll be exactly like you said they’ll grow up and start looking up things about their parents and see all the videos from after their dad passed which show how fame hungry and disrespectful their mum was. Hopefully those kids grow up and see right through her bs and question her on why she made it all about her and why she was so fame hungry but with the way things are going I won’t be surprised if at least one of the kids is pushed into the spotlight more and more as Kelsey uses Toms name and death to get those kids the career she desperately wished she had while also keeping attention on herself.
Personally, I don’t think she’s even started to grieve because at the moment she’s keepiing herself busy and riding the wave of ‘celebrity.’
Like someone else said, she can’t run away for ever, one day she’ll trip and fall, then it’ll all come crashing down. She’s possibly cold because she’s locked her feelings away because she’s scared of them.
Or she could just be a cold hearted narcissist anyway
Like someone else said, she can’t run away for ever, one day she’ll trip and fall, then it’ll all come crashing down. She’s possibly cold because she’s locked her feelings away because she’s scared of them.
Or she could just be a cold hearted narcissist anyway
The series didn't hit like I hoped 
I didn't feel one ounce of emotion towards Kelsey. She came across very cold and kind of 'over it'.
You could tell she was genuinely annoyed when Max messaged her and asked how she was coping. She will definitely push people away if she continues with that attitude. It's like she wants to move on and away from everything/one that once linked her to Tom. I found it weird that his family weren't involved, other than the tiny segment including Tom's mum. Maybe they wanted it that way, but it just came across as odd and a very divided 'family'
I didn't feel one ounce of emotion towards Kelsey. She came across very cold and kind of 'over it'.You could tell she was genuinely annoyed when Max messaged her and asked how she was coping. She will definitely push people away if she continues with that attitude. It's like she wants to move on and away from everything/one that once linked her to Tom. I found it weird that his family weren't involved, other than the tiny segment including Tom's mum. Maybe they wanted it that way, but it just came across as odd and a very divided 'family'
She’s like Cashley Cain so caught up in her be found “fame” I’m sure the kids would love to hear their dad singing she seriously is coming across heartless.
It was very her, her family and her friends. Me n my family have had it hard etc! Everyone is different n deals with death in their own way, but like others have said she comes across cold n over it. She should be happy people are checking in on her! How many people are alone with dealing with a death of a loved one.
She’s likely driven the PR around this, very little just happens with these low ranking celebs, they let you know one way or another ensuring they look innocent the whole time. Kels doesn’t care if it’s good or bad, she’s addicted to attention. I’ll say it again, Tom absolutely deserved someone else in his life, she’s an abhorrent narc. And if anything said isn’t true and she finds it so damaging she can take it to court, but it’s all true so she can’t, the cost would end her, she’s not playing with Jamie Vardys money unlike his hard faced narc also known as Rebekka
She’s evil, end of. My ex bff was also my abuser and the resentment took me years to finally acknowledge, chipping away at me constantly (all in jest because she loved me really of course), sorry but reading about Kelsey today brings me back to the exact crap I lived with for the best part of 10 years when the what I now know to be abuse started. Tom was genuinely good and she hated that. It shows.
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Anyone else not buying the ‘love at first sight’ notion she tries to portray. They were nothing more than duck buddies - a situationship if you like. I’m sure he said he didn’t have time for a girlfriend because of the band and he still slept around until she issued him with an ultimatum. She probably knew be shagged around but clung on because she wanted the lifestyle.
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100%! After seeing this article and questioning that for a while, I don’t buy it at all!Anyone else not buying the ‘love at first sight’ notion she tries to portray. They were nothing more than duck buddies - a situationship if you like. I’m sure he said he didn’t have time for a girlfriend because of the band and he still slept around until she issued him with an ultimatum. She probably knew be shagged around but clung on because she wanted the lifestyle.
Aurelia needs an appointment with a speech therapist.
If you do a quick google theres a few articles about their relationship. It definitely wasn’t sunshine and rainbows at the start
I didn’t watch it- I don’t need to I’ve lived it. But from What I’ve read the response to max asking how she’s doing I can relate to. I used to despise that question, it would make my blood boil. Why? How do you answer it? So on the surface you are ok you are functioning so your gut is to say “yes I am ok” but that sounds awful because how can you be ok when your husband has just died. But at the same time you can’t tell people what your really thinking or feeling because the magnitude of that most people wouldnt know what to say. Imagine an office colleague asking if you are ok and then telling them the truth.
If you don’t mind me asking, how did you feel 6months after your husband had passed?
I cant imagine the pain but I think maybe it should have been left out of the documentary, I know she is trying to show everything about grief supposedly, but it seemed so harsh of her how she said it
Can I ask why you think this? I’m not sure how old she is so don’t know where her speech should be currently x
I didn’t know much about this woman until recently with everything that is in the press. I was shocked and surprised to see the advertisement for the documentary, surely that would be the last thing on your mind after losing the love of your life. I know a young widow who could not get out for bed for the first 5 months never mind let a camera crew follow you around.
I watched the documentary and wow is all I can say. I have never seen a happier looking grieving person in my life. She is cold towards her little children and everything is all about her family, not Toms. I had to switch off after 30 mins. Sickening.
I watched the documentary and wow is all I can say. I have never seen a happier looking grieving person in my life. She is cold towards her little children and everything is all about her family, not Toms. I had to switch off after 30 mins. Sickening.
Because of the way she rolls her mouth when she speaks.
I can’t remember honestly I think I have blocked a lot out. I do think esp when you have kids there is an big element of “you’ve just got to get on with it” I haven’t grieved properly because for me I made a promise to my kids that I would do everything to make sure they were ok into adulthood. So we got up and we got on -but yeah there were extremely tough times, kids saying they didn’t want to be here anymore and me crying my eyes out because my kids lives weren’t meant to be like this.
Because they have a terminal illnesss and there are not really any treatments that for me made it easier to accept his passing because there just wasn’t anything that could be done for him. If he’d had a cancer that was treatable where others had survived and he hadn’t I would have found that a lot more difficult to accept. I just reason it as this was always going to happen to him, it was his fate.
To an extent I suppose I understand why she may focus just on herself because you do defo mourn for not only the person you have lost but the life that you yourself have lost. I even cry about my career because I’m now limited in the jobs I can do. Superficial but it’s not wrong because it’s something unexpected that happened to us and we are now living a life that we can’t escape.
I wouldn’t have gotten into a relationship though after such a short time. I doubt I ever will as I still consider myself married, I know the children will also never accept my being with anyone else and that’s ok because to them it’s mum and dad forever despite a death. (That’s not to say I’m going to live like a nun
but I’m a lot further down the line that her).A lot of aspects of her behaviour are not wrong, but they are exaggerated. I don’t think it’s right that after less than a year she’s framed herself as this bereavement expert. Yes she’s more expert than a lot but she knows tit all within that small amount of time. Her self promotion and positivity tit is all wrong though.
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