Kelsey Parker

[Blondeangel2515]

I feel bad saying this but I think it says a lot over the whole thing and it’s probably her objective but I’m starting to even forget she was associated with Tom like like I was fan of TW but the more stuff she’s doing it’s more overshadowing toms death and the actual “awareness” of it like she’s barely done any awareness of anything.
Like her whole thing is seen as a widower in general like there’s no actual memory of Tom to any of it all.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

I remember that live with Tom making pancakes, he was so endearing - telling people about his love for animals, he was sweet and very funny.
Kelsey on the other hand lifted her top to show her boobs “for Jay” and saying how she wished she’d married him instead…it was said ‘in jest’ but she had quite an edge to her when she was talking to him.

One of the stand-out bits for me was when Tom was making pancakes and asking Kelsey to read comments in the chat - she turned the camera on herself and started talking “yeah, so today I’ve been to the gym, and had my make-up done…” who the duck cares - the live was on Tom’s insta - not hers!! You then heard Tom say…”err…do you wanna show them me making pancakes, or what?!!”
She was like that even then

Here it is if anyone wants to watch it:

 

[lalalandx21]

I’m slightly younger than Tom and I’ve just been diagnosed with cancer, although I haven’t been given a terminal diagnosis I still don’t know where I stand/what the future holds for me. You know it happens, you can imagine what it feels like but nothing actually prepares you for the gut punching reality of it. I have 3 little kids and honestly at the minute I can barely look at them without wanting to burst into tears. The thought of Tom not being allowed to cry or being shot down when he’s asking for some companionship from his WIFE is absolutely devastating. My husband has been amazing and I honestly don’t know how I would get through each day at the minute without him. Tom deserved much, much better. This social media/influencer/z-list celeb culture has got a lot to answer for. Rest in peace Tom .

I am so sorry. Sending light and love, what a brave mummy your children have. You’ll be in my thoughts xx

I have to be fair to her and say I completely get why she says some things in that interview:
1) people cross the road to avoid speaking to her - this defo happens to us widowers .
2) getting rid of the bed. I don’t think she’s being cold here but that bed in that house- she would only remember him being in it as sick. And despite what they posted I imagine he was a lot sicker for a lot more of the time than ever depicted on socials. Appreciate it has a different context now we know she’s met someone else.
3) loosing him before he died - yes I get that too . Ive written about this before you defo so loose the man you married. The moment my husband was diagnosed his personality changed. Remember we only saw the positive bits on insta.

anyone that’s read my comments before knows I’m defo not a fan and can’t stand her behaviour how she’s milking being the grieving widow. However as someone whose been through exactly the same it wouldn’t be fair of me not to highlight the things that I understand why she says it.

I agree to an extent, I definitely think he was a lot more ill than portrayed, I remember watching a clip of him with a young girl ( who I believe has now passed too sadly) who also had GMB4 and he was saying how he had been really violently sick in his bed etc. Naturally, we didn’t see that- as we shouldn’t, it’s private.
However, they sat on the sofa of TM and said they wanted to try for another baby after his diagnosis. I don’t buy that she lost him during his illness, they didn’t even talk about him dying. None of it adds up and for her to be romanticising being a widow and moving on with a criminal is quite frankly offensive to not only Tom but his family and if it weren’t for the kids I believe she’d be ostracised greatly by them. She’s a textbook narcissist.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

I am so sorry. Sending light and love, what a brave mummy your children have. You’ll be in my thoughts xx


I agree to an extent, I definitely think he was a lot more ill than portrayed, I remember watching a clip of him with a young girl ( who I believe has now passed too sadly) who also had GMB4 and he was saying how he had been really violently sick in his bed etc. Naturally, we didn’t see that- as we shouldn’t, it’s private.
However, they sat on the sofa of TM and said they wanted to try for another baby after his diagnosis. I don’t buy that she lost him during his illness, they didn’t even talk about him dying. None of it adds up and for her to be romanticising being a widow and moving on with a criminal is quite frankly offensive to not only Tom but his family and if it weren’t for the kids I believe she’d be ostracised greatly by them. She’s a textbook narcissist.

Yes, he was a lot more ill than portrayed. Did anyone hear Kelsey telling Kate Thornton that Tom was ‘really healthy’ when he died? I mean…WHAT? Deluded is the only word I can think of!

 

[Laracroft007]

Yes, he was a lot more ill than portrayed. Did anyone hear Kelsey telling Kate Thornton that Tom was ‘really healthy’ when he died? I mean…WHAT? Deluded is the only word I can think of!

No I didn’t hear this! That doesn’t sit right with me at all

 

[CarrierPigeon]

No I didn’t hear this! That doesn’t sit right with me at all

There’s a very strange moment at 12min.30secs where Kelsey says that Tom was healthy when he died…and he had a healthy death, and that everything she did for him ‘worked.’

She talks about Dave Bolton having a terminal diagnosis but he is still here 8 years later, so she wan’t expecting Tom to die. She goes on to brag about how much she knows, but what she fails to understand is the key word ‘inoperable.’ Dave’s tumour was operable, but sadly Tom’s wasn’t.

I can understand that she’d had a hell of a time, but my god, this is one big braggfest!!!

 

[lalalandx21]

Yes, he was a lot more ill than portrayed. Did anyone hear Kelsey telling Kate Thornton that Tom was ‘really healthy’ when he died? I mean…WHAT? Deluded is the only word I can think of!

Yes! I did. All she could push was that everything she did worked. I can’t work out if it’s denial or if it’s delusion but she needs to accept that it didn’t work, the efforts of the doctor didn’t work, yes it may have bought him more time and is absolutely not anyone else’s fault. Just a really dire, sad situation

Also, how long until she is on strictly or something? She can see the opportunity I believe.

 

[GrilledCheese]

Yes, he was a lot more ill than portrayed. Did anyone hear Kelsey telling Kate Thornton that Tom was ‘really healthy’ when he died? I mean…WHAT? Deluded is the only word I can think of!

I think she might have meant he was having one of better days and was more himself?

 

[Laracroft007]

I think she might have meant he was having one of better days and was more himself?

But then she said recently I got a call to say his breathing had changed so it seemed maybe he wasn’t awake for the past few days of his life

 

[tweaking]

She’s such a gobby mouth and all me I me Tom had charisma and he was funny listening to hear hurts my ears

 

[CarrierPigeon]

But then she said recently I got a call to say his breathing had changed so it seemed maybe he wasn’t awake for the past few days of his life

Yes, bless him. I always found it odd how she said he took his wedding ring off and put it on her finger. I cam’t imagine he’d be strong enough - and awake enough - to do that.

She’s such a gobby mouth and all me I me Tom had charisma and he was funny listening to hear hurts my ears

Exactly. Her voice is really grating - she sounds like Katie Price!

Yes! I did. All she could push was that everything she did worked. I can’t work out if it’s denial or if it’s delusion but she needs to accept that it didn’t work, the efforts of the doctor didn’t work, yes it may have bought him more time and is absolutely not anyone else’s fault. Just a really dire, sad situation

Also, how long until she is on strictly or something? She can see the opportunity I believe.

Oh she will SO be on either Strictly, I’m a Celeb or the Ice one by next year as “tv personality & campaigner’ all to raise awareness for cancer…of course…definitely NOT herself…

 

[HollyGolightly]

Kesley is on Good Morning Britain today talking about life after Tom

 

[Blondeangel2515]

Kesley is on Good Morning Britain today talking about life after Tom

I just find it so weird doing all this after your partner died in general like how many other celebs go on shows etc talking about life after their partner died like it happens to loads of people it’s just odd

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Kesley is on Good Morning Britain today talking about life after Tom

Again?

I just find it so weird doing all this after your partner died in general like how many other celebs go on shows etc talking about life after their partner died like it happens to loads of people it’s just odd

The only person I can remember milking their partner’s death like this is Lynda Bellingham’s widow, Michael Pattemore. Look how he turned out

 

[LennyBriscoe]

She’s going to be on GMB in a couple of minutes. The camera was on her before it went to adverts…she’s got quite an unfortunate sneer about her

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

Again?

Yep, on after the break. I wasn’t going to watch as she makes me mad, but I will so I know the context. Was just watching the pancake live video, beyond sad knowing Tom isn’t here any longer She just makes everything about her, and her little put downs of him ‘made in jest’ but he will have felt that! Awful!

 

[noseynopinions]

Kesley is on Good Morning Britain today talking about life after Tom

AGAIN? does she ever give it a bloody rest

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

AGAIN? does she ever give it a bloody rest

She is not going down well on the Twitter feed that’s for sure.

 

[CarrierPigeon]

Yep, on after the break. I wasn’t going to watch as she makes me mad, but I will so I know the context. Was just watching the pancake live video, beyond sad knowing Tom isn’t here any longer She just makes everything about her, and her little put downs of him ‘made in jest’ but he will have felt that! Awful!

Yes she’s just so hard-faced on that video. Tom is so lovely and funny on it though. But you can actually see him struggling to remember stuff, maybe the tumour was already there then

Meanwhile, Kelsey on GMB looking really hard-faced saying that the last couple of weeks have been hard for her - that’ll be because more people are beginning to voice their opinion about her - and the fact that the press have discovered her killer boyfriend.

 

[sadstateofaffairs]

Yes she’s just so hard-faced on that video. Tom is so lovely and funny on it though. But you can actually see him struggling to remember stuff, maybe the tumour was already there then

Meanwhile, Kelsey on GMB looking really hard-faced saying that the last couple of weeks have been hard for her - that’ll be because more people are beginning to voice their opinion about her - and the fact that the press have discovered her killer boyfriend.

Exactly what I thought, only hard because not everyone is blowing smoke up her a about her new man. Everything is all about her… me,me,me,me