Totally. Itās lovely to have someone who makes you feel beautiful and accept what you deem are your physical flaws (These can be different between individuals) I think people should be accepted as they are and loved for whatās inside but at the same time being over weight or any unhealthy body weight isnāt something that should be encouraged in my opinion. And thereās plenty of enablers out there! Being co dependent on validation from others is particularly toxic. Itās clear she is a victim of this from instagram to love interests which is worrying. As much as she claims to she doesnāt love herself as she is, she would love to be smaller and this body confidence āProud of my Curves Mateā facade is a lie.I hope that doesnāt mean she will just stop trying now that sheās with him. I did that when I got with my boyfriend because it was nice for someone to accept me as I was, even if I was overweight... so I stopped being so obsessed with weight loss but ultimately I ended up gaining weight and now Iām starting from the beginning again.
Also itās healthy for the relationship for people to keep looking after themselves separately! She will end up becoming totally co-dependant and putting all her happiness in his hands and that spells disaster!!
Spot on!!What I find odd about her too is how relentlessly committed she is to Instagram. What a complete waste of a life. I read that Instagram is predicted to ādie offā in a few years - like MySpace did. Itās just a complete waste of time.
Every day, without fail, she wakes up and sheās straight to her phone. What day is it? Friday. Thatās F2F Friday day .... and on goes an angled comparison to continue with the lie that sheās a successful dieter.
The time it must take her to dig out the photos and merge them, and put the date on them. WASTE OF A LIFE.
Meanwhile, sheās unemployed, penniless and living with her mum and dad at the ripe old age of 32. Why in the name of baby Jesus doesnāt she use her time more constructively???
Iāve got an IG account but I only follow real life friends and Iām private. If I do post itās dead quick and usually just an emoji to go with it!
A good place for her to start would be an adult literacy course, to brush up her appalling English. Knowing the difference between YOUR and YOUāRE is very beneficial when youāre applying for jobs!
Then she could ensure her computer skills are up to date - ECDL etc.
Voluntary work is an absolute must when youāre unemployed. It opens up so many doors and looks fantastic on your CV.
WHY ARE HER PARENTS NOT GUIDING HER? She clearly has a very young brain for her age.
I have never been unemployed in my life. Iāve been ābetween career jobsā but there is always something you can do - Iāve pulled pints, Iāve cut cheese on the deli in Sainsburyās, Iāve sorted letters in the post office .... never unemployed EVER. I really enjoyed those jobs too - much less stress than a ācareerā job with direct reports and hassles!
She needs to put her phone down, grow up and start being an adult. I honestly think the way sheās going, she will be unemployed all of 2021 too. Her onlyāhopeā to move out is if Penfold gets her up the duff and can afford to support them both ..... looking at him, I doubt that very much. Wouldnāt mind guessing heās also still at home. But again .. what a life! The girl needs some serious guidance BUT she knows everything so wouldnāt listen anyway. Sheās doing it her way, slowly ......
Thatās me done.
I was on my soap boxSpot on!!
I read it thinking, if she reads here then it might make her think, but then I remembered who we were talking about.....! She's doing it her way!I was on my soap box
10/10 all of this!!What I find odd about her too is how relentlessly committed she is to Instagram. What a complete waste of a life. I read that Instagram is predicted to ādie offā in a few years - like MySpace did. Itās just a complete waste of time.
Every day, without fail, she wakes up and sheās straight to her phone. What day is it? Friday. Thatās F2F Friday day .... and on goes an angled comparison to continue with the lie that sheās a successful dieter.
The time it must take her to dig out the photos and merge them, and put the date on them. WASTE OF A LIFE.
Meanwhile, sheās unemployed, penniless and living with her mum and dad at the ripe old age of 32. Why in the name of baby Jesus doesnāt she use her time more constructively???
Iāve got an IG account but I only follow real life friends and Iām private. If I do post itās dead quick and usually just an emoji to go with it!
A good place for her to start would be an adult literacy course, to brush up her appalling English. Knowing the difference between YOUR and YOUāRE is very beneficial when youāre applying for jobs!
Then she could ensure her computer skills are up to date - ECDL etc.
Voluntary work is an absolute must when youāre unemployed. It opens up so many doors and looks fantastic on your CV.
WHY ARE HER PARENTS NOT GUIDING HER? She clearly has a very young brain for her age.
I have never been unemployed in my life. Iāve been ābetween career jobsā but there is always something you can do - Iāve pulled pints, Iāve cut cheese on the deli in Sainsburyās, Iāve sorted letters in the post office .... never unemployed EVER. I really enjoyed those jobs too - much less stress than a ācareerā job with direct reports and hassles!
She needs to put her phone down, grow up and start being an adult. I honestly think the way sheās going, she will be unemployed all of 2021 too. Her onlyāhopeā to move out is if Penfold gets her up the duff and can afford to support them both ..... looking at him, I doubt that very much. Wouldnāt mind guessing heās also still at home. But again .. what a life! The girl needs some serious guidance BUT she knows everything so wouldnāt listen anyway. Sheās doing it her way, slowly ......
Thatās me done.
Sheās vile. Sheās Been out of work for about 9 months and in that time she could easily have stacked shelves in tesco, helped out at a food bank, reached out to an elderly neighbour to have a phone call with once a week, walked a neighbours dog... literally anything. Even if sheās a selfish cow, at least sheād have something to pop on her cv.I'm shocked, what a pathetic little girl she really is, she's so far up her own arse it's scary! I'm still disgusted she didn't do any volunteering during lockdown to help the vulnerable etc. She is an entitled, spoilt brat who should be ashamed of herself & her idiotic parents don't help!
Imagine your son bringing THAT home - wow!!!
She will be pregnant within 6 months and turn into an insta mummy who documents every second of the childās life whilst covering them with and emoji guaranteeI think what annoys me about her is that she will probably land lucky and just coast through life without having to work very hard, and then thereās the rest of us working flat out and trying to make ends meet without the help of parents and whoever else. Sheās just infuriating. A total lack of ambition and drive to do anything other than get likes on Instagram, bloody annoying.
The thought of her as a parent is actually disturbing sheās far too selfish. She portrays the loving aunt picture as often as she can but a few times her true colours have come out if they have done something to annoy herShe will be pregnant within 6 months and turn into an insta mummy who documents every second of the childās life whilst covering them with and emoji guarantee
I could imagine her to be quite psychologically abusive to a child. Just the way her face goes when the poor baby wants some of her yogurt or fruit. Makes me feel so uncomfortableThe thought of her as a parent is actually disturbing sheās far too selfish. She portrays the loving aunt picture as often as she can but a few times her true colours have come out if they have done something to annoy her
I agree she would be a vile.I could imagine her to be quite psychologically abusive to a child. Just the way her face goes when the poor baby wants some of her yogurt or fruit. Makes me feel so uncomfortable
The reason you have gained Kirsty is because you have been eating out with your handsome every weekend!She reckons she has gained 1.5lbs because she has not eaten enough.... bullshit!