they'll be like the Von Jaffs for the next 15 years 
“Keeping Kate: The Von Jaffs” is all the next thread title needs to be. bleeping deceased HAHAHAH
. Nothing against people who have issues with spelling, husband has dyslexia, but you'd best believe he'd be googling any words he wasn't 100% about if labelling in a professional capacity.My other half is dyslexic as well and he trains people for a living. Honestly he uses me as his walking, talking dictionary! He doesn’t really use the PowerPoints he creates - he’s not a knobby trainer, but likes to ensure they are professional and the spelling and grammar are accurate.The Doula can't even spell 'nourishing'
Couldn’t your partner/friends/mum just do that for you?!The one she used is around £700Genuinely interested how much you have to pay for a doula to say encouraging things and make you soup
Once the plaque arrives!
(2nd n 3rd were all 9½LB babies so not small )Sorry but this is below the belt. Do you think it’s nice or kind to make light or laugh about someone having significant tears? Lucky you that your second and third kids came without any problems but tbh you’re just coming across as bragging. Lucky you that you had tw/o people at your births, not everyone has that privilege. I was allowed my husband for active labour and he had to leave 45 mins after the baby was born due to covid restrictions after a traumatic birth.£700 to end up with a 3rd degree tear and again for a second degree tear lmao. I know the doula can't actually help with that but she brought her along as an assurance of having the world's best births. I had my husband and my mum on all 3, needed emergency forceps for my first as back to back but no Intervention or stitches for other 2 so I think taking your mum for free beats hands down
I think the point of this is due to the amount of money it cost when she could've had the emotional support of her mother. I only had my husband with me which is all I needed
So many assumptions - how do we know she paid? It could be a friend or she could have got a deal for it being the second time she’s used her! But even if she did pay that’s her choice.
i think you’re confused about the role of a doula. Don’t get me wrong I’d never pay for one but they don’t guarantee you an easy ride. If that was the case £700 is a fair price to pay and everyone would be doing it! It’s nothing to do with the doula what kind of tear she had and actually she’s achieved a VBAC twice so in Kate’s eyes I’m sure she’s thrilled with the outcome both times£700 to end up with a 3rd degree tear and again for a second degree tear lmao. I know the doula can't actually help with that but she brought her along as an assurance of having the world's best births. I had my husband and my mum on all 3, needed emergency forceps for my first as back to back but no Intervention or stitches for other 2 so I think taking your mum for free beats hands down
I think the idea is that someone can fork out an extortionate amount of money for absolutely no reason at all. Like what has she actually paid for? Someone to talk to? Ridiculous spending imo.
