Them hearts Jesus, ppl will make literally any old crap won't they to coin in on ppls anxieties. Parents completely destroying children's chances to develop any resilience surprised her as a 'teacher' would do that really when she knows that once the school doors close kids generally get over the separation anxiety they were feeling. My eldest was absolutely awful in early primary at leaving us but we instilled confidence and proper skills so that he could overcome it which have continued to be vital for him going on residentials etc!