I feel like both will happen. She will resent him because naturally men just get more freedom than the mother and she will blame him despite her being the one to want kids right now. He will be trying so hard to earn money and keep afloat while she sits at home - and she won't have time to create content and lose all her income. she will never achieve her sustainable farm home and his income won't be enough for her. She will just nag and nag and he will just explode from pressure. Idk how she doesn't understand how much work a baby is, and doesn't see her own parents divorced - 50% of married couples divorce. Seeing her case has made me so appreciative of not having kids yet and made me so much more appreciative of my boyfriend and what he does. like genuinely i really feel for cis het white men in 2022 lol it's hard emotionally
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In her pregnancy video she said Jason had only been living away from home for less than a year (probably like a year now) meaning the moved from his family to live with Keelin in London and that’s it. Id definitely struggle with the fact I’d never really had a chance to live independently before a baby came along, especially if I was working full time and expected to do everything
Moved to london for her, when she was sick of London he had to come home too, when she was bored with her life he had to become a dad even tho he didn’t want to
And work a real job because she doesn’t want to lol
Ah to be fair it takes two to make a baby, Jason is a grown man if he didn’t want a child he should have taken precautions
ah to be fair as well keelin won't take contraception and condoms aren't vegetarian. and i also don't really like the argument that people should be guilty for not taking precautions because i think it feeds into arguments like abortion shouldn't need to be legal because you just weren't cautious. i don't think keelin is irresponsible for getting pregnant but she is for keeping it. everyone makes mistakes are theres no 100% protection even with contraception. not to sound mean but i do get the vibe he's a bit slow and just allows others to take charge for him. he doesn't really have initiative or self awareness or something
I have to disagree. I think she’s even more irresponsible for getting pregnant because her pregnancy wasn’t even an accident. It was planned. She irresponsibly planned a pregnancy knowing she was financial unstable. She’s definitely going to be a “crunchy mom”
Sorry but whats a crunchy mom
well thats what i mean when i say shes irresponsible for keeping it - because shes "saying" it was an accident. but she chose to stay pregnant. i think she planned it because she thinks a baby will force her to create a routine and structure in her life when actually she needed a therapist with ADHD training. sad that a baby is a pawn to her. i feel like keelin sees everyone in her life as an extension of herself and sees people as tools to further her career or to blame for her shortcomings - something she projected onto Shampain in one of her videos funnily enough lol. also yes whats a crunchy mom lol
Ah now that’s a bit of a reach, plenty of women work and have babies. I’m sure she’ll manage to find the time to share a sponsored post on insta
No she will desperately want to be "crunchy" but she can never stick to anything
it will be her new personality for a while until she's bored.if she actually got diagnosed with ADHD why doesn't she have meds then? why did she self prescribe mushrooms instead lol. she refuses to be labelled with BPD but self diagnoses with ADHD? it would help her stick to one if the bajillion ideas she has if she took meds. but ye i can't imagine she will be any good at budgeting and she would just move in with her mam imo
I dont think she ever got formally diagnosed with it, the process is expensive and takes ages
Why did she set up the camera and include buying lube in her vlog? I cringed so hard
I really need Keelin to stop giving advice about sex/sexuality ESPECIALLY through the lens of “feminism”.
Keelin is very much in favour of porn consumption (“feminist porn” - that label just seems contrived to me
) and honestly, do you really think this is the type of thing you want to push on your broad audience, many of them younger than you? Potential minors as well? The way she normalises watching porn w her partner as well as if every woman should be happy their partner gets off to other woman? It’s just a bit strange to me, and I suppose it becomes a question of where the line gets drawn with these types of things. Also, I find a lot of the advice she gives in response to people struggling to feel pleasure during sex comes off as a bit sheltered or surface level; “just communicate with your partner what you like and what you don’t like”/ “try out the things you see in porn”/ “practice by yourself”. Honestly I don’t think ppl should be asking Keelin this question to begin with, but she has marketed herself as the “all-knowing-big-sis”, but I just find it to be so ignorant of the very common circumstances and experiences that effects someone’s capacity to feel pleasure during sex; she’s clearly ill equipped to give a comprehensive answer so instead it’s a pink feminism, Cosmopolitan magazine-esque answer. Also when she discusses sexual orientation and queer experience (I hate to invalidate her) but she acts like she can truly understand what it’s like when truthfully the only lesbian relationship she was in was short term during high school, and she is now in a monogamous heterosexual partnership. On that note, I believe both her and Jason said they use she/they and he/they respectively but she seems extremely married to the idea of having a girl child and being a tradwife with a hardworking husband. I mean even that letter she wrote to her daughter (I think it’s weird how in a letter to her child she referenced being “skin-to-skin” with Jason) idk, it just felt like a fully woman perspective, no reference to her being non binary, and also attaching a huge portion of her child’s identity and hypothetical future to the fact that it is a girl. And that video with Saoirse when someone asked how to orgasm during sex and they said they simply manifested it? No. No. No. There are so many reasons people (women) cannot orgasm, this was not an informative answer at all and puts the burden on the woman for not being able to climax; “you just didn’t manifest hard enough”. I would appreciate this content from her if it wasn’t so clearly based off her personal experience, and actually took into account research, studies, and science (not an instagram infographic, not an op-ed; substantial sources). Okay rant over.
Keelin is very much in favour of porn consumption (“feminist porn” - that label just seems contrived to me
) and honestly, do you really think this is the type of thing you want to push on your broad audience, many of them younger than you? Potential minors as well? The way she normalises watching porn w her partner as well as if every woman should be happy their partner gets off to other woman? It’s just a bit strange to me, and I suppose it becomes a question of where the line gets drawn with these types of things. Also, I find a lot of the advice she gives in response to people struggling to feel pleasure during sex comes off as a bit sheltered or surface level; “just communicate with your partner what you like and what you don’t like”/ “try out the things you see in porn”/ “practice by yourself”. Honestly I don’t think ppl should be asking Keelin this question to begin with, but she has marketed herself as the “all-knowing-big-sis”, but I just find it to be so ignorant of the very common circumstances and experiences that effects someone’s capacity to feel pleasure during sex; she’s clearly ill equipped to give a comprehensive answer so instead it’s a pink feminism, Cosmopolitan magazine-esque answer. Also when she discusses sexual orientation and queer experience (I hate to invalidate her) but she acts like she can truly understand what it’s like when truthfully the only lesbian relationship she was in was short term during high school, and she is now in a monogamous heterosexual partnership. On that note, I believe both her and Jason said they use she/they and he/they respectively but she seems extremely married to the idea of having a girl child and being a tradwife with a hardworking husband. I mean even that letter she wrote to her daughter (I think it’s weird how in a letter to her child she referenced being “skin-to-skin” with Jason) idk, it just felt like a fully woman perspective, no reference to her being non binary, and also attaching a huge portion of her child’s identity and hypothetical future to the fact that it is a girl. And that video with Saoirse when someone asked how to orgasm during sex and they said they simply manifested it? No. No. No. There are so many reasons people (women) cannot orgasm, this was not an informative answer at all and puts the burden on the woman for not being able to climax; “you just didn’t manifest hard enough”. I would appreciate this content from her if it wasn’t so clearly based off her personal experience, and actually took into account research, studies, and science (not an instagram infographic, not an op-ed; substantial sources). Okay rant over.This thread is toxic!
This is a girl who is pregnant and trying to build a little family for herself with what seems like a good man and definitely good enough intentions to prosper. What Is wrong with ye all getting hysterical about how they’ll provide for their kid??!! I’ve got 80s parents who had kids as norm in early twenties with literally not a pot to piss in! And even less self awareness than was healthy. Yeah they might break up but so might anyone. She makes 50k she makes 30k? Who cares does that mean all poor ppl with tit jobs should not have kids?
Her Dad walked out on the family. Sorry great broadcaster but shite Dad. Sorry. She’s always been super loving to her half sibling. She’s mater mal that’s obvious. Why dislike her for trying to grasp back what was taken from her so prematurely? I’m
Sure her mom had a bloody tough time resting 5 of them largely alone through early and late adolescence so keelin has a good role model of strong motherhood.
This is a girl who is pregnant and trying to build a little family for herself with what seems like a good man and definitely good enough intentions to prosper. What Is wrong with ye all getting hysterical about how they’ll provide for their kid??!! I’ve got 80s parents who had kids as norm in early twenties with literally not a pot to piss in! And even less self awareness than was healthy. Yeah they might break up but so might anyone. She makes 50k she makes 30k? Who cares does that mean all poor ppl with tit jobs should not have kids?
Her Dad walked out on the family. Sorry great broadcaster but shite Dad. Sorry. She’s always been super loving to her half sibling. She’s mater mal that’s obvious. Why dislike her for trying to grasp back what was taken from her so prematurely? I’m
Sure her mom had a bloody tough time resting 5 of them largely alone through early and late adolescence so keelin has a good role model of strong motherhood.
I think sex is so personal and unique to everyone that no one should give advice unless they're a qualified sex therapist. I don't think many people are even asking Keelin for this content, I just get a very teenage "yeah mom I have sex" vibe off it. As if we don't know already? Her sex life is such a large part of her personal identity and she's never had lesbian sex she said, I don't believe you can "feminist"ly discuss her heterosexual sex life in the way she does without it being for male pleasure. I too believe the porn industry is abhorrent even if it's "feminist handmade etsy" porn, I think its insane that she says its okay (lest we forget her onlyfans feminism). Also, not everyone likes sex and it's not essential to a relationship. I think the priority people should learn is sex shouldn't matter at all and to get what you enjoy out of it is between you, your partner(s), and your therapist - and to not compare your sex life to any others. But hey 90% of her sponsorships lately is Beducated. she LOOOVES to profit off women's insecuritiesI really need Keelin to stop giving advice about sex/sexuality ESPECIALLY through the lens of “feminism”.
Keelin is very much in favour of porn consumption (“feminist porn” - that label just seems contrived to me
hi Keelini dont know why the only thing you took from this thread is about money, there's 55 pages here and most of them are about problematic stuff keelin does/says. have a read!
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