yeah no offence but the main trauma she brings up time and time again is her parents divorcing and its like at a certain point in time you have to move on and grow up. she gives out like she's so mature but she seems emotionally stunted like a spoilt teenager. narcissist is a strong term but she definitely exhibits some of those traits. i bet if you asked what she's done wrong in her life she wouldnt be able to come up with anything because she blames all her problems on other people or the state of the world. like the video she made acting all sorry for herself about how she was living with her parents at 24 because there's a housing crisis. no, she was living with her parents at 24 because she intentionally got pregnant, chose to move from a flat in london that she was sharing with her boyfriend even though there was time left on the tenancy, had an inconsistent income, and couldnt even be arsed to organise things herself before she moved. she had to be without missy for a while because SHE adopted her even though her landlord didnt approve of cats, and then decided to move home even though her stepmum is allergic and she thought she could just bring her too. these are all her problems and nobody elses, she causes her own mess and then cries about it its like she thinks she has no responsibility for anything. its quite concerning actually.